In parallel with this problem, I have problems with my husband, he has recently become a pessimist, and although he has 2 children (still small), I am afraid and tormented for their future. And I am an activist by nature, I always look 5-10 years ahead, I work like an ox.
Sometimes I don’t even have enough time to work with children, and this depresses me. Do not want to live! But I have to - for them!
I want love big and not impassive
And to be in a big and real family.
And end life provocatively understanding and joking,
Not in the backyards with old joints creaking
Don't whine about how life sucks
Invisibly rushing past
And shed wine and sweat and blood
For something that is expensive, desired and loved
Either so or not at all
Everything is fine with my ex-boyfriend, he met a girl with a child and she gave birth to his second .. But at the same time, he often calls me and offers to see me .. It’s very hard for me to see him and it’s very hard to refuse him, I really I love no matter what he did, I wish him happiness and really want everything to be fine with him.
Please give me some advice!? Thanks in advance!
To begin with, everything was fine in childhood, I ran, laughed and enjoyed life. But gradually, growing up, something began to change. First of all, I'm closed. (well, how to say, not that closed, it’s just that I’m not interested in talking to almost anyone, although in fits of happiness I can talk non-stop, well, or intoxicated) and it all started with an insignificant (then) case for me.
I was 5 years old, I was walking from the store, my girlfriend in the yard lied to the older girls as if I was something ...
Good day! Please help me figure it out, I can't do it myself.
I'm 19, I've never dated a guy, although I'm known as an attractive girl, but unapproachable, "too complicated" for most guys, because those who try to put wedges on my person, so to speak, often give up this business.
I used to be in the role of a hunter, but those with whom I fell in love either did not like me or became disgusted with me when they began to move in my direction, answering ...
Now I just want to swallow pills ... Everything hurts inside ... In general, I already meet a guy, he is 27. After his previous girlfriend, he did not love anyone, did not experience strong feelings .. I thought I would change this ... In six months relationship, he offered me an open relationship ... I agreed, if only he was there, let him change ... We fought a lot with him, reconciled every couple of weeks and were together again ...
In general, it was a terrible relationship ... But in the last month it was like ...
Unfortunately, many couples cannot return their previous relationship after infidelity just because they do not know how to truly repent, that is, ask for forgiveness. If you have committed an act, because of which they no longer want to communicate with you, you should never put pressure on pity.
It is impossible to love someone who causes pity. Therefore, the phrases “I don’t know how I will live without you”, “I feel bad” and “have pity” should be removed from your speech. Asking for forgiveness is doing everything possible to make your partner feel better after...
I am 15 years old. And I recently noticed that I have such a trait-feature (I don’t know what to call it): in any relationship (love, friendship, family) I sometimes “cool down”.
There is such a period that I seem to lose consciousness and hug or communicate quite positively out of habit, but at the same time I do not experience those same feelings.
This is very visible between me and my boyfriend. Sometimes I don't really care if we meet today or how he feels, hugs me or...
Natalya Yablochkova
I understand that I was not made for marriage. She lived with her first husband for 8 years and has a child. I got divorced because I was tired of enduring restrictions, jealousy, attempts to change, "break" me. She lived for six months. I met my second husband, married for six months. He begins to terribly annoy me with control, jealousy, and also requires me to change my character. But I don’t want to change, I understand that those six months when I lived alone with a child were the happiest and calmest. No one expected anything from me, demanded or wanted anything. Now a strong desire to get a divorce. There is no desire to work on relationships.
Olesya Verevkina
Natalya Yablochkova, what question do you have for a psychologist?
Tell us a little more about yourself. How many years? What do you do?
Hello Natalya Yablochkova!
I would suggest that the period of transition from one relationship to another was too short. Perhaps you have not yet completely completed the old relationship, did not feel lonely, did not build a life in a new role, but immediately got into a new relationship. This may influence the current view of marriage in general.
Natalya Yablochkova
I also thought that the second relationship began too quickly. I am 30, my husband is 26. This is his first marriage. Daughter 9 years old. We live in his apartment. He often breaks down on his daughter, it seems that she annoys him in everything. I assume that he lacks attention from me, and this is banal jealousy. I'm really stingy with warmth and emotion. On the contrary, he is very affectionate and kind, and demands the same from me. In general, after the euphoria of falling in love passed, it turned out that we are completely different.
I can't figure out what I need. On the one hand, I want no one to touch me and not climb. I am a completely self-sufficient person. And on the other hand, I don’t want to drag everything on myself like a horse all my life (although I do it best), I want to be a woman, to be taken care of and protected.
I would recommend working in personal therapy to complete everything that is not "closed" from the previous relationship, to understand why you chose a new relationship and whether they have a further perspective for development.
Why did the first marriage break up? Where did you live alone for six months? How are the first and second husbands similar, how are they different?
Natalya Yablochkova
The first husband was a Muslim and wanted to make me a submissive Muslim wife. He also often drank and gave me scandals with assault. All this influenced my desire to leave. I was afraid to do this for a very long time, because there were threats from him, but still I decided to file for divorce and my husband moved out of us. For six months I lived with my daughter in my house. The second husband at first sight is the complete opposite of the first. He is a supporter of matriarchy (as his parents have such a way in the family). Everything flows to me. It seems to me that due to his age and inexperience, he is quite infantile. Irresponsible about money. I often caught him lying, he explained this by saying that he did not want me to swear. Sometimes he drinks and behaves in this state inadequately. Sometimes, due to fits of jealousy, he becomes aggressive. And he also arranges scandals for me, fortunately, so far without assault. I never (neither in my first nor in my second marriage) hid my dissatisfaction with drinking, I always made claims if something did not suit me.
Do you have an idea about how you would like to see a relationship with a man that would be healthy and suit you?
You describe two extremes, neither one nor the other can contribute to building harmonious relationships. Both involve alcohol addiction and violence.
Yes, it is true. This is a general concept, but if you take it in more detail and taking into account your personality. What is important to you, what are you willing to give up. How are common issues resolved? These are questions for reflection on how much you imagine those relationships that would bring you joy, allow you to develop, give care and security. It is not necessary to answer them in the topic, but think about it, maybe even write it down in order to understand if there is a picture inside you.
Natalya Yablochkova
Yesterday I made the decision to get a divorce. While my daughter and I live with my mother. Problems with alcohol have become more frequent. Against this background, quarrels, his breakdowns on the child, intensified. I realized that I was not ready and did not want to endure it. Thanks for the consultation.
Yesterday I made the decision to get a divorce. While my daughter and I live with my mother. Problems with alcohol have become more frequent. Against this background, quarrels, his breakdowns on the child, intensified. I realized that I was not ready and did not want to endure it. Thanks for the consultation.
Perhaps this man was in your life only so that you would be strengthened in understanding what kind of relationship is definitely not suitable for you. Give yourself time to return to yourself, to feel yourself, to remember your desires, dreams.
With any major changes in life, we need time to adapt to new conditions, survive the stress associated with change, and only after a while we can make new plans, new relationships.
Good luck to you!
Natalya Yablochkova
Hello. For a very long time I could not muster the courage to write again, because. not used to taking a step back. But I did it. Then I filed for divorce. We have been living together since May. I set strict conditions for my husband, only under which I am ready to give a second chance.
1. Refusal of alcohol (fully respected)
2. No clarification of relations with the child (he holds on, but I, unfortunately, not always: I start to cut and bring to shaking on any little thing)
3. Separate budgets (he used to give me money and "wash his hands", did not think what to buy home, etc. Now he, along with me, keeps track of the refrigerator, the amount of gasoline in the car and the bill on the phones).
4. He dreams of children, but I wait at least a year and look at the behavior.
In general, she did everything as she wanted. He agreed with all the conditions, tries to fulfill. The two of us visited a family psychologist, where they clearly explained to us that mom and dad, and not stepfather, are engaged in raising a child. After that, their relationship with the child improved significantly, because he does not interfere in education, and she does not get angry from his remarks and obsession.
And everything seems to be fine...
BUT!
I constantly find fault with my husband. Literally everything annoys me. How to eat, how to sit, what to say. Just became a bitchy saw. A little something is not right, I poke a divorce. I honestly mock him. Even my 10-year-old daughter hints that I'm exaggerating. I read a lot of psychological materials, tried to find the cause of the problem. I even went to a neurologist, where they gave me a bunch of diagnoses with neuroses and other things, and prescribed sedatives. I do yoga, but even it does not help to relax and look "above". I feel like I can't handle myself. With what? With you, probably. My husband loves me very much, he went to great lengths to save the family. And I KINDLY love him. LIKE - because trust has been shaken. I can't trust him. I'm waiting for a trick. I look forward to drinking. I'm waiting for him to say "wrong" to the child, then I pounce on him like a vulture and protect my daughter. Moreover, these can be harmless phrases, jokes, but it seems to me that he is saying something from evil.
I want more children, I want from him, because. I see that he is kind, caring, also really wants his children, and not his stepdaughter. I understand.
But how do you learn to trust again?
Relationships alone do not guarantee you happiness, and loneliness does not guarantee trouble, of course, if you treat it adequately. This, as you might have guessed, in this article will not be about the absence of acquaintances and friends or about the orphan complex. Not at all! It will be about the most important evil on the planet - about men. Any communication with them implies a priori problems: He is not there - you are sad, He is - it is difficult ...
The fact that a man is absent from your life can be found a huge number of positive aspects. You just need to want. So He's gone, and...
Now, finally, you can do things that have been putting off for a long time somehow later. Now you have the same sacramental “free evening”. You can no longer rack your brains in the morning picking up clothes so that you don’t lose face on a date and that you feel comfortable and comfortable in it at work. You can no longer carry an arsenal of war paint in your purse in case He drags you to a restaurant. You can relax with a clear conscience and wear the clothes you want, and not to satisfy other people's aesthetic needs. It's so great to be yourself!
Now you can finally sleep in your favorite pajamas with bunnies - bear cubs - sponge-Bob, and not in a cold silk nightgown. Now you can spread out on the bed as your heart desires, or even throw your foot on the second pillow. Everything is just for your comfort! And no one is snoring!
On the weekend, you can sleep as much as you like, you can lie in bed for a long, long time without jumping up to bring coffee to the missus and urgently build breakfast for two people. You can, with a clear conscience, bask in a cozy nest of pillows and blankets. The nest can be strewn with magazines or books, or (oh, horror! A man should not see this under any circumstances!) Soft toys. You can get up and wander around the house with a hairstyle on your head "I fell from the hayloft" and nothing. Nobody will say anything.
You no longer need to be upset that he no longer calls or writes SMS. You no longer need to puzzle your poor head in search of an answer to the question "Why is the called subscriber's phone turned off or is it out of network coverage???" Now you no longer need to think that the nasty voice of an aunt reporting that the subscriber is unavailable is an insult to you beautiful.
Now you can finally go to the laziest self-service cafe and order the biggest second breakfast, which, as a man thinks, simply cannot physically fit in such a charming young lady like you.
You can afford to eat after eighteen zero zero and score on exercises. Or, on the contrary, you can do yoga or go on a diet, and going to a restaurant with Him will not distract you from it. In a word, the state of your body concerns only you. If you want to lose weight, lose weight, or if you want to, then calmly get better. Nobody will say a word to you.
But, nevertheless, no matter how a person explains his desire, people cannot understand him. For them, the situation is familiar that a person, living alone, experiences painful experiences. They do not know that, even being a loner, a person is not necessarily deprived of communication. Simply, such a life for him is the most familiar and comfortable.
And indeed. How can you ensure that, having a life partner and a friendly family at first glance, a person does not remain lonely in his soul? But being single, you can continue to communicate with people without experiencing the slightest torment about this! It's just that a woman has enough friends and she does not want to connect her life with the greatest disaster of all times and peoples - a man.
Why can this be understood
And this is quite understandable. When a man is absent in our life, we feel a lack of romance, love, warmth. But as soon as the long-awaited prince enters your door, your whole life turns into a tangle of tattered nerves. It requires care, attention, warmth. He is not satisfied with the relationship for a meeting once a week. He does not want to be bound by everyday problems. Maybe that's why an increasing number of women prefer not to build the usual long-term relationships, limiting themselves to short, non-committal meetings?
Save can not be divorced
Recently, we all fell in love with chopping from the shoulder. I don't understand what happened, but we became maniacally afraid of wasting time. We hope to meet a person who will definitely not cheat on us, even if, without any particular reason, we suspect our spouse of having a mistress.
We began to value ourselves more, more often to hope for a miracle and those around us. As if, somewhere, not even the second half for everyone, but three or four servants, designed to make life more colorful and happier, began to be born.
Before you think about what to do if you don’t want to live with your husband, think about relationships in general: what do you expect from your ideal spouse, can you match him, is everything so bad in your existing family, is it always other people were to blame for your misfortune. All this is not very simple, and not as obvious as it might seem to a person, especially with high self-esteem.
Living alone without men
Indeed, how much easier our lives would be if men disappeared from it. You will have a lot of free time. And you can spend it only in your own interests. Wear what pleases you, not him. Furnish your home to your liking. Do not prepare a late dinner that is not necessary for you. After all, you watch your figure. No one will interfere with falling asleep with loud snoring and throwing things in different corners. The apartment will become much cleaner and the dirty dishes will decrease in the kitchen.
You can stop monitoring your appearance, at least at home.
Walk around in a bathrobe three sizes too big or in a stretched T-shirt, because it is more comfortable and nothing interferes with movement. You can watch TV, switching channels, and carefully listen to tearful stories, supporting the heroine with your own sobs. Nobody will laugh at you. And no football! No beer and dried vobla scales. For you, football has disappeared from sports stadiums, and you will never again enjoy the sight of eleven idiots kicking the ball while the final episode of your favorite series is playing on another channel.
Now you understand why a woman loudly declares: I want to live alone! Isn't it true that loneliness has so many positive aspects? And there is so much free time that you can spend talking with friends, next to whom you will certainly never feel lonely!
But sometimes you want to see the fire in the eyes of a man again, wake up the butterflies in your stomach and feel welcome. We offer several ways to revive relationships with your loved one and experience the state of being in love again.
Psychological tricks that will bring back old feelings
- Share positive emotions. In moments when you are happy or rejoice, describe your experiences to a man. You will convey some of the positive to him, and in a good mood everything seems fine. You will not be an exception.
- Expand your area of interest. In a few years of living together, people learn almost everything about each other. Find a new hobby. It can be anything: dancing, listening to video lectures, foreign language courses. The main thing is that you can share your impressions with your loved one and open up to him from a new perspective.
- Get playful. According to some psychological theories, it is our inner child that is in the state of being in love. Games will help wake him up. Buy a console, arrange a pillow fight, go on a quest, compete in something. If you have children, play with the whole family.
How to return passion in a relationship: spicy ways
How to diversify intimate life, a lot of literature has been written. We will not talk about this part of the question. Let us dwell on ways that increase sensuality in a couple.
- Tactile contact. In the daily hustle and bustle, we forget how important it is to hug and kiss a partner. But it is light touches during the day that can revive the former tenderness.
- Romantic atmosphere in the bedroom. The interior is able to act excitingly. Surround yourself with objects associated with intimacy between a man and a woman:
- Beautiful paintings or photos of erotic content. The image does not have to be explicit, a hint of sensuality is enough.
- High quality linens in dark colors. Deep rich color makes a man desire. In addition, you will begin not only to relax in your bed, but also to get aesthetic pleasure from touching smooth fabrics.
- Roses. This flower is most often associated with love. Of course, in most cases, a man gives roses to a woman as a sign of attention and a hint of desire. But if your husband doesn't have ideas for a bouquet, feel free to buy flowers to decorate the bedroom yourself. After a couple of weeks, a man will get so used to a bouquet near the bed that he will start thinking about buying flowers. It is up to you to help him. Soon, the fragrance of flowers will become an integral decoration of the bedroom, and a fresh bouquet - a call for intimacy.
- Subtle hints and flirting. The process of excitement begins long before evening. Flirt throughout the day. Playful messages and unexpected photos awaken the imagination and work better than any aphrodisiac.
You don't have to implement all of these tips at once. But don't limit yourself to just one method. Relationships between people are individual: what works for some couples may not work for others. Therefore, do not be afraid to experiment and fill life with vivid emotions. After all, every day of marriage is a new stage of life, filled with previously unknown feelings.
I immediately apologize if my problem seems far-fetched (sometimes worse, 100 percent), but for me it is important. I am 31 years old. An apartment, a car and other benefits of civilization have been earned, in general a good career has been built. A little over a year ago I got married. But now I am very much tormented by the fact that it was, in my opinion, a big mistake. My husband is very good, kind, caring, with his own shortcomings (and who doesn’t have them?!), but I don’t feel comfortable living with a family ... I get very annoyed by everything. It seems to me that I do not know how to love (endure, adapt, "build a family"). Conversations about divorce are popping up more and more often ... It already seems to me that this is some kind of game "who wins ..", but this is wrong! To my arguments that I want to live alone and everything is still ahead of him, he only says - I am your husband and I love only you and we will be together, I will make you happy, etc .. Etc ... I see how he tries. And I even evaluate it in my own way from the outside (oh, what a fine fellow he is!), But I don’t need all this. I want to live alone. It has already reached apathy ... We live like neighbors (I tried to extinguish this desire for loneliness and tried to adapt, but do loving people live like that? I conclude that I don’t love him as a man. I love him as a person). But most importantly, I don't want to love anyone. Not only him... And I don't care if it's right or not. They didn’t tell my parents anything (why upset. They were so happy at the wedding for us ... They adore my husband), but I’m ready to tell them already ... Why should I “stuff” my Wishlist somewhere ... One life and spend I'm tired of her to fight... First, study, career, apartment..now family... Tired of everything. I want happiness. But I see happiness in the fact that I will live alone with a cat / dog (I don’t want people next to me). I'll be really good. Background before the wedding, if it helps: from 22 to 28 I was in cohabitation with another person (dragged everything on myself, waited for the call to marry, loved / tolerated / built a career / ennobled the house), but then a petty quarrel with his mother put I packed my things and left ... I suffered that he did not follow me (but there his mother tried to steer everyone), and then ... Then she went into a career. She worked like a wolf for about a year. Suitors appeared .. and even the former came with a "ring / knee". But it was no longer interesting to me .... But then my future husband appeared on the stage ... he was very persistent ... and he entertained / sought me in every possible way (and in the end, all my friends / relatives nodded at him from such a fairy tale side - it's him! He!! Loves!!! Wants family!! Everything for you! !! Yes, and it’s time for you to get married already, because age!! .. And as a result, he is upset and I’m sure that I love him (I saw your eyes, you are happy !! Etc ..), I’m in apathy .. Both we suffer. Parents and friends don't know yet. I know it's only my fault! But what should I do in the current situation - I'll never know!??! I will be glad to advice. And one more thing: the stumbling block may be the fact that from the very beginning everyone was expecting children (and we too), but the "stork" flies by. And I don't want kids anymore! (I wanted to, I don’t want to ... horror!) ... Thank you all in advance and sorry for the syllable - confusion in my head.
4 pieces of advice were received - consultations from psychologists, to the question: I want to live alone always
Hello. Maria. I suppose so. If his mother managed the first relationship, then the guy was dependent and infantile. it’s easy with someone who is worse than you. Now the man is worthy and correct. Mature. And you are not used to such warmth and gratitude. reaction-indifference to him, dislike. And unwillingness to have children. With him, you will have an unconscious threat of being abandoned, because, unconsciously, you are worse, and he may be disappointed in you. Yes, you can leave. , and, probably, you need to live for three years alone. But I think it’s important to work with a psychologist. To overcome the mess and discover your inner fears of failure. As soon as the unconscious fear of a man disappears, you will become comfortable in a couple. But, not now. Ask for help if you decide. I can help.
Karataev Vladimir Ivanovich, psychologist of the psychoanalytic school Volgograd
Good answer 7 bad answer 6Hello Maria!
You have the right to live the way you feel comfortable. If you want loneliness now, then it is important for you to get it and enjoy it to the fullest. Only then will you be able to either finally affirm that you are a loner, or consciously want a family and a child. Otherwise, you will still spend all your strength and energy on striving for loneliness.
But a few years ago you were ready to live in marriage. Perhaps the desire to live alone is a defensive reaction against the pain you experienced in a previous relationship. In addition, you need to deal with your emotional program, laid down in childhood, in the parental family. It follows from your letter that you are attracted to "mama's boys", and devoted, loving, caring men do not cause strong feelings.
Finally, everything can be sorted out only at an individual consultation. If you need help, come.
Stolyarova Marina Valentinovna, psychologist-consultant, St. Petersburg
Good answer 7 bad answer 0Hello Maria!
Of course, you have the right to live as you see fit. It is felt from your message that you are successful and quite confident in yourself. But if this did not bother you, you would not have written here. live, you are worried.
You write:
It seems to me that I do not know how to love (endure, adapt, "build a family")
But in every woman initially, nature has a huge supply of love, which she gives to loved ones, relatives, children, acquaintances, neighbors ... And when she knows how to do it and does it, it comes back to her ...
One gets the impression that you do not want to live according to "gender", so the following appeared in the list of your achievements:
An apartment, a car and other benefits of civilization, in general, a good career has been built
A man appeared nearby who loves you, but you feel with him as if on an equal footing and in a male role:
It already seems to me that this is some kind of game "who wins ..", but it's wrong!
Everything that happens in our life happens for us, these are our lessons. A lesson has come to you on the ability to love, give, give warmth, attention, affection and care. And for this, mental strength is also needed. Building relationships is hard work. Building relationships from the female side is a daily and round-the-clock work.
Maria! You don't have to blame yourself. You have the right to decide how to live. If there is a mood, listen to lectures by O.G. Tosunov about a happy family life, R. Narushevich about the relationship between a man and a woman (they are freely available).
Love to you and wisdom.
If you need help and desire to understand, please contact us for advice. I will be happy to help you.
Psychologist Nikulina Marina, St. Petersburg. Consultations in person, skype
Good answer 7 bad answer 2Maria, have you definitely decided that the family should look like this? Those requirements that you make to yourself - are they exactly what your family needs? Have you become a hostage to your own nit-picking and someone else's picture of family life?
I tried to extinguish this desire for loneliness
A person needs loneliness and personal space in marriage too. You just need to talk about it with your partner and decide how much time you need for yourself and your loneliness. Who told you that a family is when people are constantly glued to each other? When glued, it's an addiction.
Have you ever just lived the way you wanted to? Perhaps you often force yourself to follow some goals, and perhaps you even need these goals, but they could be achieved more calmly, more slowly, with less demands on yourself, as they say, "without driving" .... Who forces you all the time to chase after something and something to match? Constantly run and live in tension?
Family is a place where a person can be himself. Think - what exactly does your husband not accept about you? Or maybe you yourself do not accept it? You force yourself to conform to the image of the "ideal wife", but you do not like this image in your soul. And that in the family you can be yourself - they did not teach this. And it turns out "or be perfect and drive constantly" or "burn it with all the blue flame, I want to be always alone." And the middle in this can be, what do you think?
And I don't care if it's right or not.
Perhaps everything that is happening now is a protest against correctness, against "as it should be", etc.? But it doesn't have to mean "quit everything". I think you should first figure out where you have inside "how it should be", and where "how I want", and perhaps in your "how I want" there will still be a place for relationships.
Think about how all these "right" things form in our heads: http://psyhelp24.org/choice/
and in every possible way entertained / sought me out (and in the end, all girlfriends / relatives nodded in his direction from such a fairy tale - this is him! He!! Loves !!! Wants a family !! Everything for you !!! Yes, and it's time to get married already, because age!!..
If you understand that you got married only under the pressure of the family and that very “correct” way of life, then yes, you are unlikely to be able to live with this person for a long time and seriously, because it was not YOU who chose him, but someone for you.
And one more thing: the stumbling block may be the fact that from the very beginning everyone was expecting children (and we too), but the "stork" flies by. And I don't want kids anymore! (I wanted to, I don’t want to ... horror!)..
Perhaps you also wanted children because it was “right”, but as soon as it started to fail, your psyche nevertheless began to show you that in fact there is no such desire yet ...
In general, this mechanism is quite well-known: first, a person is instilled with "how to live correctly", he begins to believe in it, and then conflicts begin inside: it seems, he lives "as it is right", and instead of joy, there is only pain and suffering inside .... And it turns out that you need to find out what you need.
And to find out, you need to learn to listen to yourself.
http://psyhelp24.org/kak-nauchitsya-chuvstvovat/ - how feelings are involved
http://psyhelp24.org/dushevnaya-bol/ - how people drive themselves into a corner with plans and expectations
http://psyhelp24.org/mne-len-ya-ne-hochu/ how to distinguish your "I want" from someone else's "must"
Perhaps you, having realized yourself at least in the first approximation, look at your marriage differently. Or maybe you decide to stop playing a role if there was nothing else besides the role.
I just want to say that personal space does not imply a rejection of relationships, and the relationships themselves are built only the way TWO want and no one has the right to impose on them how to be a family and what rules to introduce there.
But with whom and when you will build such a relationship in which nothing will "strangle" you and you will feel like yourself and be free - this, apparently, only you yourself can decide.
Sincerely, Nesvitsky A.M., skype consultations
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