Honey, you are just lovely, crowds of girls write on my wall, and you are not a bit jealous. Yes, and you yourself do not give reasons ...
- Yes, it's just that my guys are smarter than your women ... and they write in a personal.

ღ And may fate not be fair! But life is a game, play beautifully!ღ .

You call me a chicken again - and I will lay eggs for you!

Sometimes the only thing left to do is hold each other one last time and just let go

DEAR GIRLS! Agree, we constantly say that we absolutely don’t care who our ex is with .... ^_^ But in reality .. THIS IS NOT TRUE!!!

She wants to love. I want to give my heart to someone... A person who will treat it with care... keep it in a secret place. In a place where he can not "accidentally" hook it - and break it.

"The past is the grave, and there is no point in spending your whole life in the grave." (R. Sharma)

My hands no longer feel your warmth, my eyes no longer see your smile, my ears no longer hear your voice, my nose no longer smells you, my lips no longer taste you, only my heart continues to feel you ... I live.

Mom understood everything and said a few words: "love always comes back if it's love"

[only my mother knows how to lower my self-esteem, burn my nerves and spoil my mood. so, dear ones, relax.]

A loved one can forgive EVERYTHING! But does he still love after that? ...

God gave brunettes beauty, the devil - mind. Not to love brunettes is a crime, to love is a punishment. Brunettes need to be carried on their hands, they will sit on the neck themselves.

[- Is it him? - Yes, but how do you know? - Yes, because you again have a stupid smile all over your face]

I do not need someone who will say "I love you" all day long, but someone who will say one day: "... and I need you like that ... a little unbalanced psychopath ...".

If you love - love without deception ... If you believe - then believe to the end ... If you hate - say it straight ... And if you laugh, then laugh in your eyes ...

[ I love you]

She changed out of spite. She drives millions of guys crazy...
And when he comes home, he wraps himself in a big warm sweater, drinks hot tea with lemon and cries bitterly.

Remember: it wasn't YOU who lost HIM... It was HE who FUCKED YOU! So let it wander!

"Do not love him, but be his beloved. Do not look for him, he will find you himself. Do not follow him, as others do. If he needs you, he will come to you!

She doesn't care what others think of her... The main thing is that HE called her the best...

Are you afraid that your loved one will cheat on you? - No !!! - proud ?? - will change, so it was not my favorite person ...

Maybe someday you will realize that you love.
It will be too late. Too late to fix, too late to understand. forgive. come back. Now it doesn’t matter. Everything becomes important when it ceases to be needed

I'm sorry that I left, I'm sorry I didn't stay, but I'm not the same anymore ... I don't want you to look into the void every day, let me go and I'll fly into the crowd

Everyone is looking for someone in life with whom he feels good and comfortable ... And then it does not matter what his height, hair color ... It is important what place You occupy in the life of this person.

Someday you will realize that no one will ever love you as much as I do....but then I will already be your past...no chance to become present..

Everyone needs a guy who will take you by the scruff of the neck, put you on your knees, and say in your ear: "Sit down and don't rock the boat, now you're only mine

ღ ♡★... You just played... like with a doll... hmm... but you, bitch, still don't know how I loved to play war games as a child... ღ♡

When you fall in love unrequitedly, you want to ask for forgiveness from all those who were unrequitedly in love with you ....

A beautiful bitch .... - so the friends say ... a ruthless bitch .... - the guys think ... an exemplary girl ... - parents hope ...

You may be proud and independent in front of a thousand others, but it is in front of Him that you will behave like a fool.

What does a modern girl do after breaking up with a guy? She convulsively thinks about what status to write in contact, so that he would be offended

Either I'm a handsome guy, or the mirror sucks.

It is easier for men, they immediately see what kind of breasts. But we women are in for a surprise!

I'm strong... I'll stop loving you... I don't need you... You don't deserve me at all! You yourself will come and ask for forgiveness ... But it will be too late, because by that time I will stop loving you! ...... So, okay ... Dreamed and enough ... I'll go smoke ...

Only having lost - we will begin to appreciate, only being late - we learn to rush, only not loving - we can let go, only after seeing death - learn to live ....

You hurt me, and I endure... you make me cry, and I smile... you just don't know that people like you made me stronger a long time ago... hurting me and making me cry

When love ends, one necessarily suffers ... if no one suffers, then love has not begun ... if both suffer, love is still alive ..

“it seems to us that we love this person, we cannot live without him ... we cannot exist without him, we want to be always with him, and then we understand that this is just a habit ....”

It didn't work out as well as I would have liked. What to do? How to proceed?

Family problem

If people live together for a while, then it is not news that there is monotony in their lives. At first glance, everything is fine and wonderful, but when you look more closely, it is immediately noticeable that those feelings and that passion are gone. They seem to be left somewhere in a past life.

To prevent this from happening, periodically it is necessary to arrange some kind of “shake-up”. As a result, the relationship will be the same as before, and maybe even better.

In the same case, when neither of the spouses does anything, then the feelings slowly disappear, and indifference comes in their place. But don't confuse it with hate.

Pay attention to any changes

If such a situation happened in the family, then the woman perceives it much closer and more painfully. As soon as the wife notices some changes in relation to her husband, most often she continues to pretend that everything remains as before - she is desired and loved. And this may continue for some time. But the husband moves away more and more, and the wife simply closes her eyes and, deceiving herself, plays the perfect marriage.

Under no circumstances should this be done. And all due to the fact that after a certain period this game is no longer called a happy family, but its parody. And when there is complete inaction during this difficult period, the wife’s humility will not only not return her husband’s feelings back, but, on the contrary, will alienate him even more.

If you do not look at everything with “pink glasses”, but pay attention to even minor changes in attitude, and at the same time analyze, then you can not only save your family, but also strengthen it. After all, when a spouse moves away, and his other half is diligently trying not to notice it, it will not lead to anything good. At some point, it will be safe to say that the husband hates his wife.

Factors

There are several factors that give signals that a crack has begun in the relationship.

If at the beginning of their life together, the spouses did everything together, the husband always listened to the opinion of his wife, then later he begins to make decisions and eliminate problems, not only without consulting, but even without sharing it with her. This is the first sign that her opinion does not matter to him.

A woman should pay attention to whose interests for her husband come first. If it is, then she will eventually understand that she no longer has the reliability and support that she had at the beginning of the relationship.

If nitpicking and reproaches begin, after which irritation and indignation follow, then this is a sign that something needs to be changed, otherwise hatred may soon appear in your relationship.

If the husband does not respect his wife, but at the same time does not speak directly, but simply constantly criticizes her both as a woman, and as a mother, and as a hostess, this should also be paid attention to.

Of particular importance can be given to such an environment when the spouses, being together, do not have common topics for conversation. And there is nothing to say about laughing heartily at the simplest anecdote.

Do not ignore those moments when the husband does not want to just touch his wife. If this factor is ignored at the beginning, then after a while, when the spouse shows the slightest kindness, except for hostility and irritation, she will receive nothing else in return.

It also doesn't hurt to ask why is my loved one not hurrying home? It seems that everything has been done for his convenience, but it is still better for him to meet his friends after work than to come earlier.

The change in a husband's relationship with his wife is clearly noticeable when he begins to protect his personal space. At first, a woman looks at it through her fingers, always finding some kind of excuse, but rarely does anyone think about how everything could end.

Lack of sex, despite plausible excuses, in the first place, should push a woman to change something, otherwise the result can be disastrous.

You can often hear from the lips of a woman: "My husband hates me and insults me, not thinking about how insulting I am." But few people think that, perhaps, by her actions she provokes a man to such an attitude.

Problem with ex-spouse

Even if the marriage breaks up, in many cases, men are left with not just an unpleasant aftertaste, but disgust. When the fair sex says: “The ex-husband hates me, and I don’t understand why, what did I do?”

There are many explanations for such situations. After all, every family and relationship is different.

One can consider such an option when the family initially has complete harmony and mutual understanding, but some time passes, and the wife, not feeling guilty for herself, and believing that she is right, is constantly dissatisfied with something, expresses not very pleasant things or commits unforgivable acts . The husband takes it all calmly and without scandals, trying to find a logical justification for everything. But it can't be like that for long. Inside, this negativity accumulates and accumulates, and as a result, he looks at his wife not with that loving and adoring look, but full of hatred.

And even after the divorce, the wife believes that she is the innocent "victim" who tried so hard. But as a result, only streams of hatred come from the ex-husband.

Another woman

There are also situations when a spouse does everything possible and impossible for her husband to make him feel good and comfortable, but after a while he gets used to it and imagines that this is the case everywhere and everywhere. He begins to change, first secretly, and then openly, and a certain moment comes when he leaves the family.

A woman so devoted and so caring, despite the moral pain he brought her, lets go with a pure soul and wishes him only happiness, but at the same time she knows perfectly well that even if he asks to go back, there will be no way back.

A man who has lived with his new passion for a short period begins to understand what a treasure in the form of his ex-wife he has lost. But at the same time, he believes that if he knocks back on the door, she will gladly accept him back.

But when the wife refuses this to the ex-husband, he is at first surprised at such a turn, and then begins to get angry with her. Since he cannot morally accept that fact.

The woman, for her part, cannot understand the aggression and hatred that the former faithful feels towards her. It seems that she let go, and did not want evil, only she refused to return ... And she puzzles over the question: "Why does my ex-husband hate me?"

The answer to this situation is very simple. He does not hate his ex-wife, but himself, from the realization that not everything and not always can she forgive, and human patience is not unlimited.

When a turning point comes in family life, and a woman feels her husband’s dislike and dislike for her, she immediately panics, asking the same question about what to do next and what to do at the moment.

Analyzing situations

In order to choose further tactics of behavior and not make things worse, you first need to analyze what could have caused this to happen.

The first thing that comes to mind is that the beloved has another woman. But what does this have to do with it, if it seems that the husband hates his wife. When a man is not going to leave the family, he often changes his mistresses, but his half is not so easy to notice. Even if this happened, then he had one answer - he wanted some kind of variety.

Perhaps the attitude has changed after the birth of the child, since, basically, the mother is almost completely focused on the baby. The spouse at this time experiences a feeling of indignation and resentment from the fact that so much attention is no longer paid to him. Then he begins to attract him with aggression.

Having analyzed the situation well and clearly, a woman must draw conclusions for herself and determine whether she wants to continue living with this person. Or the best option would be a divorce, after which, not immediately, but gradually, she will gain not only peace and tranquility, but also self-confidence, which she so lacked in family life.

But what about when a woman says that her husband hates me, but at the same time I love him and do not want to lose? You can try to somehow change the situation with a little strength and patience.

If, for example, the spouse works, and she doesn’t have as much time for the family as she would like, and this is the reason for the spouse’s dissatisfaction, although he himself has a good salary, it is preferable for him that his wife stay at home and pay more attention to him than a career. Then, if you want to save the marriage, one way out is to give up work.

Always be on top!

Often married women make the same mistake - they stop taking care of themselves (they didn’t have time to wash their hair, then they didn’t have time to go for a manicure), and this, in turn, repels their husband. Since he married an always well-groomed representative of the fair sex. To prevent this from happening, this must always be remembered and done so that the spouse can not only admire, but also proudly demonstrate that this is his woman when someone else looks in her direction.

It is necessary to constantly develop spiritually and intellectually in order for a husband to always be not only a beautiful picture, but also an interesting conversationalist.

You need to try to make sure that the spouse spends his free time more often nearby, and at the same time he does not have a desire to go somewhere, for example, with friends for a beer.

You always need to find many reasons to praise your husband, to say a gentle, kind word to him.

Very often in family life it happens that one of the partners does not know how to correctly express his thought. Then it is very difficult for the couple to agree and explain themselves to each other. If a woman has such a shortcoming, then she needs to express her thoughts more constructively so that the husband understands what is at stake and what exactly the wife wants to say, and does not remain again in thought that once again something is left unsaid.

Often an offended spouse turns to specialists and declares: "My husband hates me." Psychology is a subtle science. And experts in this field agreed that in such cases the most important thing is to objectively analyze family relationships and see future prospects for their continuation.

Mutual hatred

What to do if my husband and I hate each other? The problem here is not that the senses have become a little dull or a habit has appeared. From the very beginning of family life, the couple did not have that emotional closeness that is hidden behind love. And when the latter goes a little by the wayside, misunderstanding immediately appears. In this case, even the most insignificant trifles lead to the fact that discontent and alienation grow between the spouses, which accumulate more and more every day. As a result, everything that united the couple disappears.

When a woman tells her friends and relatives: "My husband hates me," people give a wide variety of advice. Most believe that you should talk frankly with your loved one. But do it very carefully so that he does not refuse to discuss his feelings, and the attempt itself does not turn into another scandal. To do this, you need to express yourself judiciously and calmly. It is desirable to achieve this (possibly unpleasant) conversation. Then the result will be clear, the spouse will finally understand whether there is still any chance to save the family. Otherwise, you will have to come to terms with reality.

Everyone should be happy!

If a girl says: "My husband hates me." What should she do? Now the time has come when the wife needs to remember that she is a woman and also has the right to personal happiness. Senseless conversations and wasted energy, except for another disappointment and the collapse of hopes, will not bring anything good.

It is best to let go of your spouse, and not cling to him and keep him close. After all, the feeling that he needs his wife, and that she, as before, is desirable, will never return. And so, left alone, sooner or later a woman will find complete peace of mind, perhaps she will have a desire to build new relationships.

A conspiracy that will help make relations with your spouse better

What if your husband hates you? The conspiracy will help. It is this method of solving the problem that many women trust. To conduct the ceremony, you will need your own wedding ring and a long birch torch. What to do next? The torch is inserted into the ring so that there is the same distance on both sides. Then the edges are set on fire, and a conspiracy is read on the smoke, the words of which are as follows:

"Do not burn, fire, do not fall

My wedding rings

My wedding rings.

Burn and burn and pain

Heart of a servant of God (name),

His chest is white, his lungs and liver,

So that he could not live and breathe,

Not a day, not a minute to be without me,

How he wants to drive me away

So he wants to hug me.

Burn, torch, go, smoke.

Sending sadness to my friend

Do not remove him, do not let him know.

As said, so done.

I lock it with a lock, I close it with a key.

Be, my words, for all ages

Not removed, not cursed, not crumpled,

Not broken and not sewn off.

Key, lock, tongue.

Amen. Amen. Amen".

It is necessary to extinguish the fire only when the splinter on both sides burns down to the very ring. After that, the remaining cinder must be put in the husband's pocket. You need to make sure it doesn't disappear. If this happens, then repeat the ceremony again.

Another conspiracy

In addition to the above ceremony, when a husband hates his wife, what else can you do? Create the appearance that a woman listens very carefully to her husband, while she looks him straight in the eyes, and in her mind she says:

"Like me, a servant of God (name),

I do not want and cannot live without arms and legs,

So you do not live without me (name).

From now on and forever. Amen".

Go to church

When a husband says he hates, the wife may need to pray to keep from getting depressed. So that the Lord would give her strength and patience to go through all this and not do any stupid things.

Sometimes some mistresses do everything so that the husband hates his wife. They can weave intrigues, wind up a man. As a result, he really has such feelings for his legal wife.

There are women who do not believe in any magical conspiracies and rituals. What should they do? After the husband began to hate, it is best to go to church and confess. Perhaps the priest will help restore faith in life and in yourself. It will push you to the fact that life is priceless, but short and you need to enjoy it, enjoy every day, and those family troubles are a test from God that he sent, knowing that a person will cope with it.

Let go

If a woman says: “My husband hates me, it’s getting harder and harder to live with him every day,” then perhaps the best way out of the situation is to let him go. Indeed, in the end, two people will not suffer themselves, and no one will be forced to suffer next to them.

If a woman complains about life and says: “My husband hates me, family relationships are going nowhere, what should I do next? ...” We must not forget that there is no specific answer to this question. And the decision to save the family or, on the contrary, is not even worth trying, the spouses themselves should make.

No wonder there is such a proverb “From love to hate is one step” and vice versa. The likelihood that, by trying to save the marriage, the spouse will be able to interest her lover, as at the beginning of the relationship, and maybe more, is very high. Then married life will continue like a permanent honeymoon.

Conclusion

Now you know what to do to a woman who feels the alienation of her husband. There are many options for solving such a problem. You need to choose the most optimal for yourself. Remember that a woman should always be loved!

"- How I hate you! - and after these words they began ... kissing passionately ..."

What does "love you" mean? It means, first of all, that I have feelings for you. Strong. Beautiful. What is "I hate you"? After all, it is also a feeling. And it's just as deep and strong! Just the opposite of love. Love and hate can coexist. It is so accepted - love is positive emotions, hatred is negative ... However, we experience a feeling ... even hatred, but nevertheless ... this is also a feeling.

To experience any feelings for a person ... already says something. No, not about, of course, what you already love. Or you'll love it. And at least that the person is not indifferent to you. Love and hate, no matter how strange it may sound, are very similar. The adrenaline that you experience when you see your loved one, being next to him, is so similar to the same one, only arising from hatred! And the hands are trembling just as well, and the heart is also pounding and this sparkle in the eyes ... Feeling hatred, you, just like in love, do not notice anyone and nothing around - all thoughts and emotions are focused on him (her), hated (Noah)!

Surprising but true. Love and hate are two opposites. But. How often does this happen in life?!...opposites attract for some reason. And here it is the very step ... one ... from hatred to love. Short.

As often happens in life, former enemies suddenly become best friends, girlfriends. Paradox? Maybe. But life has its own rules, its own laws. And for some reason, the strongest couples are made from former people who hate each other.

Hate is a very strong feeling. Comparable to him in strength only love. I don’t believe that a person who says “yes, I hate her (him) ... does not have any feelings for him. b indifferent. Indifference is already the absence of any feelings. Here, no matter which way you step, no matter how many steps you take ... you will never reach love. Indifference is the "terminus" in love. Our heart can be a thousand times broken, but. When it breaks, either hatred or indifference arises. The fact that a person is indifferent to you is best told by the eyes - empty. There is only darkness and emptiness in them. And nothing more.

And when hatred appears, it means that the heart still loves. It still continues to "feel", only not love, but hatred. And if a woman (man) tells you - I hate you! (while experiencing, as a rule, a strong heartbeat ... Trembling in the hands and a sparkle in the eyes ...) do not take these words literally! And mentally rejoice. It means she (he) feels something for you, it means that the spark in the heart has not gone out. Or not fired up yet! And how to kindle this spark is up to you!

Hello. My name is Natasha, I am 22 years old. My young man is 23. We have been together for five years, for the last two years we have been constantly quarreling, but I have always been the first to reconcile, I cannot sit still and wait for him to burn out. This habit of mine is very annoying to him, as well as my words “I love you”, “good morning”, “forgive me”, “thank you”, “you are wonderful” and in general any manifestations of affection or at least minimal goodwill. It really hurts me - every time he pushes me away, it's like my heart is breaking. He repeatedly spoke with disgust about my habit of saying such words, but I thought that in time he would "thaw" - and he himself constantly said this. But now his disgust and irritation have reached critical proportions, he criticizes me every day, literally every living manifestation of mine, and as soon as I say something in response - "enrages", "I'm tired", "I've heard this a million times", "you You know you can't make me angry." She offered to take a break in the relationship - he simply brushed it off. Said "enrages the same when you're reminded of this." I don't think he took my offer seriously. He says that I need to completely change the style of communication and never make him angry - and then everything will be fine with us. He says I'm constantly driven by all sorts of nonsense. When he speaks, I always mentally agree with him, he turns out to be right. But when I find myself far from him - for example, I'm riding alone in public transport - I think: really, I really shouldn't be offended by constant mockery, expressions of disgust addressed to me, derogatory criticism and insults? It breaks through in the wrong places and I start crying. I drink glycine, it calms a little, but it does not help with breakdowns on the street and in public places. I owe him a lot - he essentially saved me when I continued to ruin my health at a tedious job. He convinced me to pay attention to myself, to treat progressive epilepsy. At the moment, my epilepsy practically does not bother me and I quietly earn a living as a freelancer, thus maintaining the opportunity for myself to maintain the regime I need. I would be happy about this, but I only feel emptiness - and also that I can’t just pick up and leave, because he spent so much time and energy on me. He often talks about it himself. I'm sorry that I annoy him and ruin his life, but he doesn't seem to want me to leave. I still love him, although I open up to him much less than before. I'm not a masochist - I don't get any pleasure from this situation. She hurts me a lot. But I'm afraid that if I leave, I'll betray my beloved, and even spent so much time on me. I tried so many things to not annoy him, but all to no avail. I don’t want to completely break through under him, and I consider the demands with a change in the style of speech to be unfair and absurd, because I have already changed a lot in myself at his request, including in my speech. What little is left of me I would like to keep. What should I do? Is there a way to fix the relationship?
p.s. Sorry if it's confusing

3 pieces of advice were received - consultations from psychologists, to the question: Beloved says that he hates, but does not let go

Hello, Natalia! Not at all chaotic, it is felt that you have "accumulated". By what you write - changes are brewing. You write that you owe your boyfriend for drawing your attention to the fact that you need to take care of yourself. It's great that you are grateful. However, this does not mean at all that you are now indebted for life. Natasha, your boyfriend protected you from overwork. And who will protect you from it? Are you up to it? Who will protect your self-esteem from constant nit-picking, mockery, demands to change. How much your boyfriend works on himself in your relationship. It's just an illusion that one partner only "should" work on the relationship.

Natasha, the fact that you are crying, how you write in inappropriate places - indicates that you are in constant tension. Everyone wants to be accepted for who they are. And when you are constantly being remade, it is very difficult. Every person creates a certain atmosphere around him. You create an atmosphere of care, tenderness, you love and desire love. And what kind of atmosphere does your boyfriend create. And how do you live in this atmosphere? By what you write - you live in constant psychological violence. And the first thing to do is not to let him do this to you.

Natasha, you write that you want to keep what little is left of you. It's good that you want, it's a pity that you want so little. You write that he spent so much time and effort on you. But what about you? By what you write, you have spent and are spending even more. He reproaches, accuses, demands. What does he give you? Not just once, but constantly? Natasha, you write that he is constantly irritated with you. I will tell you a secret - no matter what you do - something will still annoy him. And the point here is not only in you, but above all in his character. Answer the question for yourself: do you want to live the way you live all your life? After that, make a decision. Sincerely, Svetlana Gorbashova.

Gorbashova Svetlana Vasilievna, psychologist in Ivanovo

Natalia, hello. Your writing is clear and understandable. The good news is that you clearly understand that you often have to give up yourself for the sake of this relationship, for the sake of a young man. But for some reason, he does not want to change next to you, for your sake, given your diagnosis. Of course, you can be, and you should be grateful. But not to the extent that you consider him your debtor! It is very doubtful that he also thinks so ... In relationships, both should always make contributions, to their strengthening, to accepting each other with all the features, otherness. It is no good to demand from another to adjust to oneself! What is this relationship that should be washed down with glycine? You must treat yourself very carefully, Natalia. Moreover, your diagnosis is quite serious... And before you think about how they can be corrected, think about what if this makes sense? You alone cannot fix them, and the young man is not going to do this. He is going to correct you. And you are not ready to break yourself and your essence, which is absolutely right! Sincerely.

Silina Marina Valentinovna, Ivanovo psychologist

Hello, Natalia.

They fix cars, but feelings can't be fixed. Between you now there is a lot of tension, irritation, resentment. But there is no love, respect, mutual acceptance. And given that the young man does not want to accept tenderness from you, it is difficult to say whether it is possible to restore a good, caring relationship between you. Here, this is what draws attention to yourself: do you only speak gentle and affectionate words, but how do you show your care for him in deed? I mean household care - do you cook food for him and so on. Intimate relationships also play an important role. Maybe there are some difficulties in your life that can affect the mood of your young man. It may well be that it’s not you who annoy the young man so much, but some kind of trouble. But everything reflects on you. In addition, people who live next to those who are sick experience everyday stress from the fact that they constantly worry and worry about their loved one, and may even become depressed. The young man asks you not to call him that, well, refrain, everyone - all the same, after all, all feelings will remain in your soul. It would be possible to go to an appointment with a psychologist together if you have mutual desires to maintain a relationship.

Your offer to live separately is also very reasonable. Just why are you waiting for consent from a young man, because you yourself can do it. Sometimes, it happens that having separated from each other, people begin to understand the value of another person, or vice versa, they finally realize that love is gone and they need to leave.

As for the debt to the young man for his care of you, it is already clear that you are grateful to him. But relationships are not built on debts alone.

Sincerely

Paryugina Oksana Vladimirovna, psychologist in Ivanovo

The only way to know for sure that someone hates you is to have them tell you, but there are certain signs that can help you with this. It is extremely important to pay attention to the girl's body language, as well as the words and tone of her voice.

Steps

Part 1

1. Study the expression on her face. While not a perfect method, a lot of what people experience shows up on their face. There are many things you can pay attention to. Usually only one of them will not mean that the girl hates you, but if there are more of them, it will show that she dislikes.

   • If he wrinkles his nose, it means that she expresses disgust at your presence (unless, of course, there is an unpleasant smell).
   • Narrowed eyes or rolling eyes when you are around (especially if you are talking).
   • If she doesn't make eye contact with you, it could mean she's shy, but it could also be a sign of dislike.

2. Watch her body language. Body language is another good indicator, although you should keep in mind Not exact science. Look closely at what she is telling you by how she physically reacts to your presence. This can say a lot about the feelings she has for you.

   • Arms crossed over the chest are often considered a sign of closeness. There is a chance that if she is standing or sitting with her arms crossed over her chest when she is near you, then she is trying to stay away from you. Of course, some people just stand there, so a gesture, taken by itself, may not mean anything.
   • Another good sign is to see if she turns away from you all the time. If she doesn't make eye contact with you and turns her body away from you, it could mean that she wants you to leave her alone and is looking for a way to get away from you.

3. Pay attention to how her friends behave. There is a chance that if she hates you, then she has already told her friends about it. They will want to protect her (because they will be on her side). If you pay attention to how her friends behave, whether they ignore you when you try to talk to them, then you will get a fairly accurate idea of ​​\u200b\u200bher feelings.

   • If you're both at a party and you're trying to approach her, but her friends are holding you back or trying to stop you from trying to talk to her, that's a good sign that she doesn't want to do business with you.
   • If you're alone and her friends constantly show up to take her away or interrupt you, that's another good sign that she may not like you and her friends are trying to protect her from you.
   • If you see her smirking and laughing with her friends when she looks at you, this is another good sign that there is a dislike on her part. Of course, she may not look at you, but if this happens constantly and along with other signs, then this is a clear enough sign of hostility.

4. Pay attention to how she behaves with you. It is obvious that it is not only body language that is important in her behavior. Her actions will also help you determine how she feels about you and whether she hates you.

   • Every time you try to talk to her, she turns into a magician and disappears. This means that the minute you tried to talk to her, she managed to be in another place. If it only happened once or twice, then it doesn't mean anything, but if it happens more often, she probably doesn't like you or is upset about something.
   • She never returns your calls or messages. This is a big sign because it's easy enough to reply with even a short message, but if she never answers you or only responds in one word, it's a sign that something has happened.

5. Pay attention to how she behaves if your plans match. If you've planned something together, even something as simple as coffee shop prep or something, and she always finds a reason not to go through with those plans, that's a good sign that she doesn't want to hang out with you. time.

   • If she ruins your plans by not showing up at the meeting point unannounced or apologizing, again, she doesn't want to spend time with you.
   • If she constantly forgets about plans, then she does not want to spend time with you. Some people are weird, but not that much.
   • Remember, this does not necessarily mean that she hates you. You can annoy her by annoying her with your plans, or you can be completely indifferent to her.

   Part 2

   The study of verbal signs

   1. Listen to the tone of her voice. Tog voices are a serious indicator of feelings. It doesn't mean she's talking because people are lying or saying things they don't really mean all the time, but feelings can often be seen in the way she talks.

      • If she uses a calm tone of voice when she talks to you, it means that she is not interested in the conversation (unless, of course, she always talks like that). Usually, when a girl talks to someone she likes, her voice will waver.
      • Sarcasm can be a great way for her to tell you that she doesn't like you, and she doesn't even have to say it directly. It's all about the hesitation in her voice. If she says something like "That would be fun" if you ask her out for coffee, pay attention to how she says it. Add that to her facial expression and body language, and you can get pretty clear on how she really feels.

   2. Pay attention to the words she uses. The words she uses can often tell you how she feels, even if she didn't come up to you and say "I hate you" (as few people say that). However, if she says "I hate you" and she looks serious, that's another great sign that she actually hates you.

      • If she answers your questions and conversation with one word answers, you are either talking too much, or she is not very interested in this conversation.
      • If she never strikes up a conversation and it's always you who talks, then again, she's probably not that interested in talking to you. While this doesn't necessarily mean that she hates you, it's possible that she doesn't like you.
      • "OK." "Great"

   3. Determine if she talked to you about other people. Even though she may not have told you directly that she hates you, it is likely that she has said this to other people, such as her friends or even some of her acquaintances. Ask people if she has spoken (if at all) about you.

      • The best thing to do is ask her friends. While it can be difficult to talk to one of them in private, if you get the chance just ask her friend if everything is okay between you and the girl and if you did something wrong. If you're polite, chances are the friend will want to tell you.
      • Just remember that whatever people tell you will be twisted by their own interpretation and should not be the only evidence that she hates you.

   Part 3

   How to change her attitude

   1. Give her personal space. If someone hates you, it's a good idea to give them time and a place to cool off. If you are constantly around her, then she will probably begin to hate you even more. If you give her space, it may remind her why she liked you in the first place (if that was the case).

      • This means you don't have to pester her with invitations or ask her when she's mad at you. Just let it be for a while.
      • There is no set time to wait. You will have to determine this for yourself, but depending on how strong the hatred is, it could be a few weeks to a year.

   2. Rate your actions. People do not just start to hate someone for no reason, it seems to you fair or not. Think about how you behaved towards her and try to identify what could have caused her to treat you this way.

      • Think about what you said. It could be something as simple as a mistake she misunderstood. Or it could be that you showed your sympathy by making fun of and teasing her (kind of like pulling pigtails on the playground).
      • Perhaps she feels that you are suffocating her with your attention. If you're always around and trying to talk to her, it can get on her nerves. In this case, it is better to give her more personal space.

   3. Sorry. Even if you don't think you did anything wrong, but you like this girl and want her to stop hating you, you should apologize. Don't try to approach her and say "don't frown" or "don't you get the joke?" and especially never come up with a false apology "I'm sorry you reacted that way."

      • It's best to apologize in private. The public can force one or both of you to behave in ways that you would not behave in private.

   4. Be polite. A good way to show her that you want to make up and that you're worth putting up with is to be nice to her, even if she hates you. You will show that you are a good enough person to take the right approach and avoid potential showdowns.

      • So when you see her, say hello and ask how she's doing. Stop there. This communication is enough to show that you care and that you are interested in her well-being, but not enough to get on her nerves.