What to do if your husband threatens to kill. What to do if your ex-husband threatens If your ex-husband threatens

1. The husband threatens to kill and breaks windows.

1.1. Good evening, Svetlana! Why are you waiting for your husband to do what he promises? Call the police. If you might regret it later, then reassure him and discuss the situation later.

2. My husband constantly beats me, stalks me, locks me in the apartment, threatens to kill me.

2.1. --- Hello dear visitor, divorce him, no one will do it for you. Film the beating and file a report with the police, or vice versa, report the beating and you will be sent for a forensic examination. Good luck to you and all the best, with respect, lawyer Ligostaeva A.V.

3. The husband threatens to kill, there are several recordings, the husband’s brother works in the authorities, where to go.

3.1. Video recording or audio recording? And what does his brother work for in the authorities and in which ones?
If you are really afraid of reprisals, then you should contact the police or prosecutor’s office.

4. Good evening, what should you do if your husband threatens to kill?

4.1. If you are being threatened, and you perceive these threats as real, then in this situation it is advisable to contact the police and file an appropriate statement.

4.2. Go to the police, there is nothing else you can do. Write a statement, indicate all the circumstances, and let the district police officer investigate further.

4.3. Have a nice day. You have every right to write a statement either to your local police officer or directly to the police department.

5. If your husband threatens to kill, what should you do in such a situation?
Thank you.

5.1. Hello! File a police report regarding threats

"Criminal Code of the Russian Federation" dated June 13, 1996 N 63-FZ (as amended on June 7, 2017)
Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, Article 119. Threat of murder or infliction of grievous bodily harm

(as amended by Federal Law dated December 7, 2011 N 420-FZ)
(see text in the previous edition)

5.2. You need to submit a written statement regarding this to the internal affairs authorities and ask them to take action regarding this fact.

6. What should I do if my ex-husband constantly insults me and threatens to kill me?

6.1. Hello. Contact the police to file a criminal complaint. There are signs of Art. 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation.

6.2. What should I do if my ex-husband constantly insults me and threatens to kill me?
Hello Tatyana, contact the police with a statement about the death threat and seek the initiation of a criminal case.

6.3. (Article 119. Criminal Code Threat of murder or infliction of grievous bodily harm) Contact the local police officer with a statement and a witness, he will conduct a conversation with your ex.

6.4. Tatiana. Threat of murder (Article 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation) implies a real danger to life. We need proof. Think about it and file a complaint with the prosecutor's office.

7. How to correctly write a statement to the police against a husband who is threatening to kill?

7.1. Hello! You can come to the department and on the spot, following the sample, write an application in any form. Good luck to you and all the best!

7.3. Good afternoon Just contact the police, they will tell you how to write. The main thing here is to prove the fact of threats from the husband. And, think about whether his threats are real and whether you are acting on emotions. The father's criminal record will affect the children.

7.4. Write to the head of the police department in free form. Be sure to indicate all the circumstances, if any - witnesses and other facts. Write your application briefly, saying that such and such did such and such. I ask that you be prosecuted. And write the explanations (on a separate sheet) in as much detail as possible.

7.5. Contact the police department, they will tell you how to write a statement and an explanation of the case. But keep in mind that you will no longer be able to withdraw the application, even if you change your mind. Your issue can only be successfully resolved with legal assistance. Always happy to help you!

8. My husband threatens to kick me and my 3-year-old son out of the house. Threatens to beat and kill. There were cases of physical violence. Beatings. Make my life hell.

8.1. Contact the police in case of a threat to life.

8.2. If you are not the owner but the mother, she has the right to evict you. Regarding threats of murder, beatings and other violence, contact law enforcement agencies.

9. I can’t kick out my roommate. Constantly threatens that he will kill me if I go anywhere. He is not my husband and is not registered in my apartment, but my apartment is not privatized.

9.1. File a complaint with the police that a citizen has broken into your house and is threatening to kill you.

9.2. Wait until he goes somewhere, change the locks and don’t let him in the door again. You can put his things on the staircase; you are not obliged to store them. Otherwise, one day they will actually find your corpse. For those who endure this in the hope that everything will resolve itself, most often the matter ends this way.

10. An acquaintance came to our house, pulled my husband into the entrance and hit him in the face and took out a knife, I managed to push him away and push my husband home. We filed a statement but the police did not act. The criminal is at home... threatening to kill us and come now. The police did not detain him..he had already cut 2 people..there are a lot of cases against him and they are not detaining him.

10.1. Article 10. Review and permission by the prosecutor's office statements, complaints and other appeals [Law "On the Prosecutor's Office of the Russian Federation"] [Article 10] 1. The prosecutor's office, in accordance with their powers, resolves statements, complaints and other appeals containing information about violations of laws. The decision made by the prosecutor does not prevent a person from going to court to protect his rights. A decision on an appeal against a sentence, decision, determination and order of the court can only be appealed to a higher prosecutor.

10.2. Hello! You can write a new statement to the police under Art. 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation - Threat of murder or infliction of grievous bodily harm.

11. We haven’t lived with my husband for a month and haven’t filed for divorce yet. He threatens to kill, rushes with a knife and every time he says he will break out the windows. She called the police and was released an hour later, he came back even angrier and knocked on the door again.

11.1. Contact the prosecutor's office with a complaint about the refusal to initiate a criminal case.

11.2. Record all his actions on your phone. Appeal the refusal to initiate a criminal case. New facts - write a statement again.

11.3. Good evening!
You can contact the police with a statement about a death threat (Article 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation). From the description of your situation it does not follow that there was a decision to refuse to initiate a criminal case, which means there is nothing to appeal to the prosecutor’s office.
Record on camera and on your phone the threats you receive.

12. My ex-husband threatens to kill me if I don’t return to him. Is it possible to do something, bring him to task for threats?

12.1. Good afternoon Threatening to kill is a crime and is punishable.
According to Art. 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation:

Threat of murder or infliction of grievous bodily harm, if there were grounds to fear that this threat would be carried out, -
shall be punishable by compulsory labor for a term of up to four hundred eighty hours, or restriction of liberty for a term of up to two years, or forced labor for a term of up to two years, or arrest for a term of up to six months, or imprisonment for a term of up to two years.
If you continue to receive threats, contact the police.

13. A neighbor hit my car parked in the yard with stones. Threatened to kill. Challenges my husband to a “fight”. How to deal with him.

13.1. Good afternoon.
Report the death threat to law enforcement agencies. But witnesses to this offense are required.

13.2. You need to immediately write a statement to the police. Be sure to photograph everything and assess the damage caused. This will be needed in order to later collect money from the neighbor for car repairs. In case of threats, write a statement about criminal prosecution for hooliganism and threats to kill.

14.1. Hello, based on the above facts, you should write a statement to the police and record the beatings and threats, and also urgently file a claim to remove it from the registry. registration and eviction.

15. Our neighbor is threatening to kill my husband; we have a small child. What to do? She didn’t record it on video or on a dictaphone, she still insults me.

15.1. Hello, Love!
In this case, you just have to endure it or contact the police. There is no other option. Based on your appeal to the police, a procedural check will be carried out, as a result of which the guilty person may be held accountable. However, you have no evidence of a death threat. As for insults, you need to file a complaint with the district prosecutor's office.
(Article 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, Article 5.61 of the Code of the Russian Federation “On Administrative Offences”)

16. What to do if you are being stalked by your ex-husband, who is no longer legal? breaks into the apartment, breaks windows, breaks doors, hits me, threatens to kill me. There is a minor child and a pregnant eldest daughter at home. What articles are provided?

16.1. Okay. Sadly
115 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation - minor harm to health (for example, concussion)
116 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation - beatings for hooligan reasons
simple beatings will be administrative punishment
119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation - threat of murder. But the threat must be real, and not just say - I will kill you. For example, when he waves a knife and makes such threats, and there are witnesses to this
but as for breaking doors - here is pure 139 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation - Illegal entry into a home, committed against the will of the person living in it.
Write to the police every time, film all the beatings, take videos, take photos, call witnesses. Send a statement to the police using the form on the website, because at the duty station they will do their best to dissuade you from writing a statement with the words: well, you understand... nothing will happen to him... we already have a lot of work... everyone is on a mission ... and there they found a corpse... and there are drugs... and here you are with your beatings... woman, go home.

17. A man constantly calls from anonymous numbers, writes everywhere on social networks, when he said I’ll change my phone, he found my apartment, knocks and rings the doorbell, often threatens that he will kill my husband in order to be with me. This continues for about 3 months.

17.1. If you yourself could not convince the person to leave you alone, you need to file a statement with the police, possibly under Article 137 or 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, or you can simply indicate that you are asking for an assessment of the citizen’s unlawful actions.

18. What should I do if my mother’s common-law husband threatens to kill her? He does not respond to threats from the police, he says that if he finds out about the challenge, we will all die.

18.1. It is necessary to record the fact of threats. This could be SMS messages, telephone conversations and threats in front of witnesses. Be sure to write a statement to the police about criminal prosecution for threats to kill. In your statement, indicate that you accept threats, take them seriously, and fear for your life. At the time of the threats, the cohabitation was terminated.

19. My husband beat me and threatened to kill me with a knife; we have 3 previous convictions. He is still registered in the role. The last time I was imprisoned under Article 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation. I am not writing a waiver. What threatens him?

19.1. Hello
Faces liability under Article 119 of the RF IC
. Threat of murder or grievous bodily harm (current version)

Criminal Code Chapter 16 Article 119
1. Threat of murder or infliction of grievous bodily harm, if there were grounds to fear that this threat would be carried out, -

Punishable by compulsory labor for a term of up to four hundred eighty hours, or restriction of liberty for a term of up to two years, or forced labor for a term of up to two years, or arrest for a term of up to six months, or imprisonment for a term of up to two years.

2. The same act, committed for reasons of political, ideological, racial, national or religious hatred or enmity, or for reasons of hatred or enmity against any social group, -

Punishable by forced labor for a term of up to five years with deprivation of the right to hold certain positions or engage in certain activities for a term of up to three years or without it, or imprisonment for a term of up to five years with deprivation of the right to hold certain positions or engage in certain activities for a term of up to three years, or without one.

19.2. He will again be prosecuted under Article 119 Part 1 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, up to two years in prison. It is also possible to be held accountable for beatings, but this has its own nuances.

20. My ex-husband (divorced for almost 3 years) threatens me that he will “cum”, there are SMS messages. The police told me that they would only conduct a preventive conversation with him. To which I asked that until it really kills, they will remain inactive. The answer was yes. Please tell me, is this possible? Thank you in advance, Svetlana.

20.1. Hello Svetlana!

Article 119. Threat of murder or grievous bodily harm

1. Threat of murder or grievous bodily harm, if there were grounds to fear that this threat would be carried out, -
shall be punishable by compulsory labor for a term of up to four hundred eighty hours, or restriction of liberty for a term of up to two years, or forced labor for a term of up to two years, or arrest for a term of up to six months, or imprisonment for a term of up to two years.

Have you contacted the police with a written statement? If not, please contact us in writing. You can also appeal the decision on your application.

21. The ex-husband threatens to kill, beat, verbally and via SMS. Can they be held criminally liable? (Evidence of printed threats)

21.1. Hello! Yes, there is a real possibility of bringing your ex-spouse to criminal liability under Article 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation. File a report with the police.

22. Good night. Today, after a quarrel, my husband beat me, kicked me all over my body, choked me, threatened me, and said that he would kill me. There are bruises, scratches, swelling all over the body. I contacted the police and filed a statement, but they said that there was no chance of punishment, the beating was light, nothing was broken. Is this really true? What should I do? He has a weapon and a permit for it, I am afraid of this man, he threatens me.

22.1. Hello.
1. The accused is considered innocent until his guilt in committing a crime is proven in the manner prescribed by this Code and established by a court verdict that has entered into legal force.

2. The suspect or accused is not required to prove his innocence. The burden of proving the charge and refuting the arguments put forward in defense of the suspect or accused lies with the prosecution.

3. All doubts about the guilt of the accused, which cannot be eliminated in the manner established by this Code, shall be interpreted in favor of the accused.

4. A conviction cannot be based on assumptions.

You also need to prove guilt.

22.2. Contact an experienced lawyer. Without his help, you still won't succeed. Tested by time. If the threat is truly real, then delay can cost lives. It happens.

23. A neighbor attacked me and my husband with a knife in my apartment, my husband has 4 stitches on his neck, I have a nervous breakdown, I can’t sleep at night, I constantly dream about this situation and health problems began due to nervousness. He threatened to kill us, we didn’t know him at all before, he was intoxicated. How much can I file a civil claim for?

23.1. In this situation, you are not limited in the amount of damage, whatever amount you consider necessary to demand, so declare this in the claim. The more severe the damage to health, the greater the compensation.

24. My husband is accused of beatings that he did not commit, I am a witness to this, his wife, how at that time the victim’s husband attacked her husband with a knife and threatened to kill him, but we have no evidence, they hid the knife. What threatens my husband and what should we do? Thank you in advance!

24.1. If during the inspection they do not establish a hooligan motive for the beating, they will be subject to administrative liability established by Art. 6.1.1 of the Code of Administrative Offenses of the Russian Federation, namely beatings or committing other violent acts that caused physical pain, but did not entail the consequences specified in Article 115 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, if these actions do not contain a criminal offense -
shall entail the imposition of an administrative fine in the amount of five thousand to thirty thousand rubles, or administrative arrest for a period of ten to fifteen days, or compulsory labor for a period of sixty to one hundred and twenty hours.

25. My ex-husband threatens to kill me, during the next quarrel the child recorded a conversation where he says this, he is being treated by a private psychiatrist, constant breakdowns on me instantly as a child. Constant distractions require us to do everything as he says. He has already rushed at me with a knife several times, a 10-year-old child has seen this and is afraid. I wrote to the police, it was useless. Now my ex-husband still lives with us in the same apartment. I'm afraid of him, he tells me I have nothing to lose. What to do?

25.1. Hello, write a statement to the precinct of the world court at your place of residence that, in accordance with Article 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, he constantly threatens to kill you and your son, if you are assigned a hearing, present to the judge as evidence (at the court hearing) an audio recording, if any witnesses, then invite witnesses.

25.2. What to do? Leave such a husband. There is no other truly effective option. It’s only strange that you chose such a husband. Very strange!

26. Hello. I am married, my husband is threatening to kill me and my family because I want to get a divorce. There is photo material and audio of threats from him. There were also beatings, but I didn’t go to the hospital. Is there any point in filing a threat report? Or will they not proceed with this matter, as many people write on the Internet?

26.1. Good afternoon dear Nastya
Write a statement to the police and divorce him as soon as possible. Everything is real

Good luck to you and your loved ones!

27. I wrote a statement against my husband, my husband strangled me and threatened to kill me and my son with a knife, tell me, does this really trigger a refusal statement.

27.1. Dear Marina, everything will depend on the evidence base: witnesses, medical examination report.
Sincerely, Candidate of Pedagogical Sciences Yu.V. Korolev.

27.2. Good afternoon. In order to bring your husband to justice under Art. 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation (threat of murder), it will be necessary to prove a real threat (oral statement that he is about to kill, etc.) with the commission of any actions (for example, putting a knife to the throat, squeezing the throat with his hands, etc.) . Evidence can be in the form of audio recordings, witness statements, a forensic expert’s report, etc. As a last resort, you can insist on bringing your husband to justice under Art. 115 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation (intentional infliction of minor harm to health), Art. 116 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation (beatings) or Art. 117 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation (torture). But remember that if you do not present evidence of violence, then most likely no one will look for it and you will be refused to initiate a criminal case. Need help - contact us. Good luck.

28. A month ago, my husband rushed at his son with a knife and threatened to kill him and me. Can I write a statement if this was a month ago? It’s just that at this time my husband again threatened to kill me and broke his lip. What punishment does he face?

28.1. If you decide to prosecute your spouse for threatening to kill, then you should file a police report. In this case, it doesn't matter when it happened. In the latter case, if the threat was not accompanied by the use of objects dangerous to life and health, then it will be impossible to initiate a criminal case.

29. My husband won’t give me a divorce. He threatens in every possible way that he will kill me and my family. He will force you to sign a waiver for the child. We have him 1. And he is 4 years old. How should I deal with this situation? How can I get a divorce?

29.1. ---Hello, you need to leave him urgently and not think twice about it, and file for divorce and threats. No one will strongly ask his consent to divorce. Good luck to you and all the best, with respect, lawyer Ligostaeva A.V.

29.2. If the father loves the child very much, it means he also loves the child’s mother, maybe it’s better for you to find a way to improve the relationship, because it’s better for the child to live and grow up in a complete family.

Many women suffer domestic violence. And divorce is not always the solution.

Often the ex-husband stalks the woman, or injures her. If you are in this situation, take action immediately or risk real violence. There are several ways to reason with a separated man, which we will discuss below.

What is considered a threat to life and health?

A crime is considered committed if two important circumstances are proven:

you regarded the threat expressed by the attacker as real;
your ex-husband has an objective opportunity to harm you.

For example, a man pinned you against the wall, waved scissors or an ax in front of your face, accompanied by threatening statements. If he shouts nasty things to you from around the corner or from the balcony, he is unlikely to be held accountable.

In addition, the attacker’s statements must contain words that directly indicate that he wants to take your life or seriously injure you (I will stab you, strangle you, break your neck, etc.).

If the threats are objectively real, then you can bring your ex-husband to justice.

How to collect evidence of a criminal act?

To punish the offender, it is necessary to collect evidence confirming his illegal behavior. It can be:

eyewitness testimony;
audio and video recordings with threats;
notes, screenshots of correspondence via email or social networks;
physical evidence (for example, your ex-husband threatened you with an ax and cut the railing in the entrance to intimidate you).

Timely recording of evidence of a crime is your chance to bring the aggressor to punishment.
What to do if your ex-husband threatens to kill you?

If your ex-spouse threatens you with violence, do not let the situation take its course. Sooner or later he can cause you real harm.

To call the police

This method is suitable if you are faced with an aggressor face to face.
Contact law enforcement in person

If your ex-husband transmits threats to you remotely (in a letter, by phone, on social networks), write a statement. Even if the fact of the offense is not confirmed, the district police officer will hold an explanatory conversation with the offender, which will cool his ardor.

If the application does not produce results and the ex-husband continues to harass, file a petition for each fact of the threat expressed. When several of them have accumulated, you can file a statement on the fact of torture - systematic mental or physical influence.

Apply to court

After law enforcement officers rein in the aggressor, you can go to court to recover moral damages.

If your ex-husband won’t calm down, file a police report for every threat.

We write a statement to the police

The application is submitted in free form. Be sure to include:

your personal data;

the circumstances of the incident;

time and place of the crime;

information about the offender;

a warning note regarding liability for false denunciation;

date and signature.

After considering the application, the police will issue you a decision to initiate criminal proceedings or to refuse to initiate one. The decision will be made within 10 days.

Drawing up a statement of claim to the court

The claim must contain the following information:

name of the judicial authority;

personal data of the plaintiff and defendant;

circumstances of the case (time and place, what kind of threats were made by the offender, etc.);

evidence that the offender can carry out the stated threat;

your claims for compensation for moral damage;

list of witnesses (if any) and list of attached evidence;

date and signature.

A statement of claim can be filed separately or stated during the investigation of a criminal case if threats of murder or grievous bodily harm have been recorded. The state fee for filing a claim is 300 rubles.

Criminal liability for death threats

The crime is qualified under Art. 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation. If there are no aggravating circumstances, the culprit faces:

compulsory work up to 480 hours;

arrest up to 6 months;

, restriction or imprisonment for up to 2 years.

If your ex-husband threatens you with violence because of your religion or political affiliation, the punishment will be more severe - forced labor or imprisonment for up to 5 years.

For threatening to kill, you can get a real prison sentence.

Thus, the responsibility for such actions is quite strict, but the fact of the crime is extremely difficult. To ensure that the offender receives the punishment he deserves, we recommend enlisting the help of a lawyer.

1. What to do if your ex-husband threatens you via SMS.

1.1. Hello! File a report with the police.

2. My ex-husband is threatening to kill me, what should I do?

2.1. Hello Allah! You have the right to file a corresponding complaint with the police. Please note that the facts of the threat will need to be confirmed by video and/audio recordings, correspondence, and witness testimony.

3. The husband threatens to kill, there are several recordings, the husband’s brother works in the authorities, where to go.

4. My husband's ex-wife insults and threatens our family. How to stop her?

4.1. Hello, Elena! You have every reason to contact the police and file a complaint against her.
Sincerely, LAW FIRM "ZAKON".

4.2. good day, Elena! If the threats are real, then file a statement with the police. But I think your husband needs to have a serious conversation with her about the payment - you are nobody for our family and there is no way to call you. If you don't want a police report, then leave my new family alone. You can always find a way out of any situation, the main thing is to take steps to achieve it. Contact lawyers and they will help you in drawing up documents and resolving your issue. Contact numbers and addresses are usually indicated under the lawyer’s response.
Good luck to you and all the best in your endeavors.
Sincerely, legal company "PRAVO", member of the Guild of Human Rights Defenders of Moscow!

5. The ex-husband of my common-law wife threatens and insults her via WhatsApp.

5.1. Hello.
Your ex-wife needs to contact the police with a statement regarding threats from her ex-husband and provide evidence. The police will take all necessary measures to bring him to justice.
All the best.

6. The ex-husband threatens and humiliates. How to protect yourself.

6.1. Contact the police with a statement regarding the threats and criminal prosecution in accordance with the procedure established by law. Good luck to you.

7. My ex-husband threatens me and my husband with physical harm.

7.1. If you have evidence of threats, then you need to contact the police with a statement to bring him to justice. However, if your ex-husband simply calls and says that he will deal with you, then it will be difficult to initiate a criminal case under Article 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation - threat of murder. Write then that the threats occur systematically and are in the nature of psychological torture. This is torture.

8. My husband threatens to kick me and my 3-year-old son out of the house. Threatens to beat and kill. There were cases of physical violence. Beatings. Make my life hell.

8.1. Contact the police in case of a threat to life.

8.2. If you are not the owner but the mother, she has the right to evict you. Regarding threats of murder, beatings and other violence, contact law enforcement agencies.

9. What awaits the wife who threatened to harm her husband in text messages, who will send people who will fuck her in all the cracks and who will suck blood? SMS saved!

9.1. Criminal liability awaits her.

10. Divorced from my husband, but the divorce has not yet entered into legal force. I want to file for division of property, but my ex-husband took almost all of my property (4 cars and small equipment) and sold it without my consent. He also threatens that if I file for division, I will pay loans worth 1 million rubles together with him, I was not even aware of these loans. What should I do in my situation?

10.1. It must be submitted for section. What kind of loans? What did you undertake?

10.2. File a claim for division of property. In court, recognize the loans taken as jointly acquired property taken for the needs of the family, or refute them.
The ex must prove that the loans he took went to the needs of the family, but you. refute this.

11.1. Regina, leave calmly with your child and file a claim for marriage in your home country. It is advisable to do this before the husband imposes a ban on the child traveling abroad. If he manages to impose such a ban, then there will be problems with the child’s departure that will take a long time to be resolved in court.

11.2. Good afternoon Regina

You can go home with your child and get a divorce in Ukraine.

12. The husband began to beat the children, threatened his non-native son with a knife to the throat, saying if you don’t listen, I’ll stab you. Will he be given a prison sentence or will he get off with correctional labor? Scary.

12.1. This is a death threat and they give a real sentence for this.

13. On the Internet, my Neighbor writes false information about me, insults me, and threatens me and my husband.
There are screenshots of all the insults and threats.
He also sends slander about me to local groups on VKontakte (that I am an inadequate crazy person and throws myself at people).
He also writes to my husband at work with slander.
I want to write a police report against her, please tell me how best to file it.

13.1. In order to file it, you need to go to the area where the perpetrator lives and tell the person on duty that you have been insulted and you intend to file a complaint. You need to have your passport and information about the identity of the attacker with you.
The district police officer will conduct an inspection and issue an appropriate decision.

14. My ex-husband, from whom I have a small child of 2.5 years, constantly threatens my life and health, promises to shave my head, causes material harm, what should I do, can I write about an attempt on my life if he attacks me.. two statements I already wrote about him, so far there are no measures regarding him.. what should I do? He also has a criminal record in the past, including serious bodily ones... I'm afraid, I want him to go to jail.

14.1. Hello Diana. An ex-husband can be imprisoned only for real actions. Regarding the inaction of the police, write a complaint to the prosecutor's office. Of course, it is advisable for you to change your place of residence under the specified conditions.

15. We haven’t lived with my ex-husband for almost 4 years, he still writes SMS insulting and humiliating messages, talks to his daughter on the phone and tells her how bad I am, insulting me at the same time, threatening to sue me, that I will pay a fine because I don’t allow him to communicate with her.

15.1. You can contact the police with a statement to bring him to administrative responsibility under Art. 5.61 Code of Administrative Offenses of the Russian Federation for insults. SMS correspondence will confirm this. You can also recover compensation for moral damages from him for insults. And don’t be afraid, on the contrary, his illegal behavior will justify why you are not giving him a child. And if he wants to communicate more, let him prove this right in court.

16. Everyone’s time is precious. Tell me how to protect my family... the police refused to help until the first incident of physical violence happened. I'm telling you. I married a girl who was previously married. Ex-husband, drug addict, local bandit. Showed up recently. Constantly threatens me and my family. What should I do, because if I cannot legally protect myself and my family from him, I will have to act illegally... if possible, add me to VK. Alexander Pyzhonkov. City of Ryazan. I'll give you more information.

16.1. Record all conversations, threats, etc.
Write statements, complaints.
You can also be charged for insults, among other things.

17. My daughter worked as a merchandiser in a store. Her husband came there in a drunken state and began to demand money, she did not give it, then he took a package of coffee and shampoo for 3200 rubles, she ran out after him, he had already left when she came home, he threatened her, if he told anyone, it would be worse , a few days later she left him, and he wrote a statement to the police as if she had suffered this, she wrote the truth during interrogation, but she was told that this was complicity, what to do?

17.1. Hello! Let him write a counter-statement to law enforcement agencies regarding the theft.

17.2. Good afternoon. Since your daughter is suspected of a criminal offense, I recommend that your daughter consult a lawyer in the city where she lives. As a rule, participation in one investigative action costs 5,000 rubles. This is better than the Criminal Code article.

18. Can my partner (and/or his mother) threaten or “place” a lien on the house I own? Since for 4 years of living together the main financial part came from my common-law husband (cohabitant). That is, only on the basis of “papers” that he deposited funds into my bank account. And he will claim that these funds were used to build this house.
How to understand his phrase - we (he and his mother) are dealing with the encumbrance?

18.1. If a lawsuit is filed, it may file a petition for interim measures, but you have the right to appeal this.

18.2. Liliya Ibragimovna, in any case, they can only count on money, but not on the house itself.

19. We lived with our common-law husband for 7.5 years. Now he has found himself a new woman and is using all his might to kick me out of the apartment with our common child. He is the owner of this apartment, and we are simply registered. My daughter from my first marriage also lives with us. He threatens, drinks and constantly exerts moral pressure. What to do in this situation?

19.1. Hello. If he is the owner, then he has the right to even remove you from the registration register and even evict you.

20. I am a citizen of the Russian Federation. The child too. The former common-law husband (his father) threatens to physically harm me and threatens to take the child to Abkhazia. He himself is a drug addict with hepatitis B and C and uses lyric poetry. How can I avoid all this and protect myself and my child?

20.1. Hello! Contact the police!

20.2. Good afternoon. First, if you cannot resolve the issue peacefully, write a statement to the police. It is better to do this more than once and save copies of the application. If preventive measures do not help, and he is the father of the child, prepare documents to court for deprivation of parental rights.

20.3. Hello Angela, you need to write a statement about his threats to the police. Deprive him of parental rights in court.

21. There is a video where tenants who refuse to pay rent insulted my husband and threatened with physical violence. (He’s an idiot and when he comes home from work they’ll find him, put him on his knees and...). What is provided by law in this case?

21.1. Contact the police and the threat will be investigated. And also to court to collect rent.

22. My husband is divorced, calls me on the phone, threatens me, says that I will regret it.. Can I somehow limit him from coming to our home to see the child? There are recordings of conversations. Thanks for the answer.

22.1. Hello Maria.

Is the order of communication with the child defined?

23. How can I challenge the paternity of my ex-husband, since he is not the biological father, but at the time of adoption he knew that it was not his daughter, three years have passed since the divorce, she does not participate in any way in raising her, they did not file child support because he threatened me . What to do, please tell me! The main thing for me now is to challenge the entry in the act.

23.1. Evgenia, good evening. You need to file a claim in court to challenge paternity. It is the father of the child who cannot file a claim if at the time of establishing paternity he knew that the child was not his. This restriction does not apply to the mother.

23.2. And this is not difficult.
Contact the court with a claim to cancel the official record of the father in the child’s birth certificate. During the proceedings, you request a DNA examination to determine the absence of family ties between the child and the person indicated as the father.
The defendant’s refusal to participate in the process may serve as grounds for considering the case in his absence and satisfying the claim.

24. Who should I turn to if my former common-law husband does not allow me to live in peace? He doesn’t threaten... He wants to live with me again, but I don’t want to, because... I know the consequences!

24.1. Tatyana, your question is more of a family issue than a legal one. Whether to live with him or not is up to you to decide in this case.

25. The situation is this: I have a 2.9-year-old child living with a former common-law husband, the family is terrible, his mother drinks with a man who was once seen with pedophilic tendencies, my sister’s husband is a prisoner, he leaves the child with them, I can’t take it for myself without work and I live with a friend, my mother is seriously ill and that’s not an option for her either.
And they threaten that if we don’t take the child, they will beat her.
What can be solved?

25.1. If you do not need a child, then contact the guardianship service. The child will be taken to an orphanage.

25.2. I agree with the previous answer. Contact the guardianship and trusteeship authorities. Perhaps the child will be better off in an orphanage than with his father and his family. Moreover, if you yourself cannot provide your child with normal living and upbringing conditions.

26. My ex-boyfriend threatens me and my husband, comes to our work, talks all sorts of nonsense, writes complaints. At the moment I am pregnant, he wrote to me that he will wait until I give birth! What to do?

26.1. Ksenia, it is necessary to record all threats and messages and file a corresponding complaint with the police. You shouldn't communicate with him. Let the police talk to him.

26.2. File a complaint with the police, and in case of improper response, contact the prosecutor's office.
Federal Law of January 17, 1992 N 2202-1 (as amended on October 30, 2018) “On the Prosecutor’s Office of the Russian Federation.” Article 10. Consideration and resolution of applications, complaints and other appeals by the prosecutor's office.
""1. The prosecutor's office, in accordance with their powers, resolves statements, complaints and other requests containing information about violations of laws. The decision made by the prosecutor does not prevent a person from going to court to protect his rights. A decision on an appeal against a sentence, decision, determination and order of the court can only be appealed to a higher prosecutor.
""2. Applications, complaints, and other requests received by the prosecutor's office are considered in the “procedure” and “time frame” established by federal legislation.
3. The response to an application, complaint or other appeal must be motivated. If the application or complaint is refused, the applicant must be explained the procedure for appealing the decision, as well as the right to go to court, if provided for by law.
4. The prosecutor, in accordance with the procedure established by law, takes measures to bring to justice persons who have committed offenses.
""5. It is prohibited to forward a complaint to the body or official whose decisions or actions are being appealed.

27. The question is this. I was invited to a birthday party by a married couple. Where the conflict subsequently occurred. I arrived home. They called me and asked me to come down supposedly to apologize. My 17-year-old daughter came with me. The lady's husband and his friends drove up and threatened her with a bat. For self-defense, my daughter used a pepper spray. There were no witnesses. The phone received threatening calls. The application has already been written. But I'm afraid that nothing will happen to them.

27.1. Good afternoon Not every threat is subject to criminal liability. Within the framework of Art. 144 of the Code of Criminal Procedure of the Russian Federation will conduct an inspection.
Liability arises only if the threats of murder or infliction of grievous bodily harm, and these threats are REAL..., that is, there were grounds to fear that this threat would be carried out, -
- art. 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation

They can submit a counter-application (for a gas canister)

28. Such a question! Married to my husband, 1.5 I left him (I had problems with alcohol) now he says he’s in disguise! We have a baby together (5 m). My husband insists that he wants to see him, but throughout the entire time we separated, he did not give a penny for maintenance (even at my request). I don't want him to see the child! He wrote to me on social networks, I didn’t answer, he began to threaten that he wouldn’t give me a divorce, to call and humiliate and call my parents names! What to do in such a situation?

28.1. Hello!
Let him go to court to determine the order of communication with the child; he has the right to do so, but until there is a court decision, you can prevent their communication, taking into account his lifestyle.

28.2. Lika, first, go to court with a claim for alimony, or for divorce.
“Divorce won’t work” - we don’t have that at the moment.
You cannot “give” or “not give” a divorce.
If you go to court, you will be divorced.

29. The ex-husband intimidates, threatens, and tries to forcibly take away a child who has begun to fear him after receiving a court decision on the procedure for communication. The baby lives with his mother, where everything is in order and the requirements are met. What should I do to protect myself and neutralize my aggressive husband, even though he does not fulfill the requirements specified by the court (he is not interested in the life of the baby, does not participate and skips visits) and is it possible to sue him in response?

29.1. You can write a complaint against him to the guardianship authorities, you can file a claim in court about the generally desirable order of communication.

30. Some people call me, my neighbors and various other people I know, introducing themselves as employees of the prosecutor’s office, and they threatened to maim my ex-husband and son. They introduce themselves to everyone by different names. Can prosecutors behave this way, or are they collectors?

30.1. Well, what kind of prosecutors are they? Firstly, in order for you to be called to the prosecutor’s office, I don’t know what needs to be done; usually everything goes down to the police. Plus you didn't indicate the reason for the calls. But collectors, yes. Funny boys. Record conversations via speakerphone in the presence of witnesses and contact the police.

We hope that none of our readers will encounter such a situation in life! But, alas, those women who experienced threats from a spouse (or ex-spouse), They also hardly believed that this would happen to them - after all, they, too, once married a loving man! What to do, if husband threatens(or ex-husband) who to turn to and for what help, how to respond to threats- advises the women's website.

The husband threatens: what should the wife do?

First, you need to understand that this is not just “Vasenka is in a bad mood, you have to endure it” or “hitting means loving”!

Threats are an unlawful act. and you are absolutely not obliged to put on a “good face on a bad game” by listening to all this from your husband!

So, common mistakes that should not be made if your current or ex-husband threatens:

Don't tell anyone about the threats. Like, why would I ruin the family’s reputation? Everything will still be fine, but my husband and I will be thought poorly of, etc. Of course, you should hope for the good, but you cannot remain in a situation where no one can help you, support you, and, in the end, confirm to the police that there really were threats! Think about who can become your “safety net” - parents, sister or brother, friends?.. In fact, publicity can be a very effective means of appeasing the threat - the husband may be afraid of ruining his own reputation!
Do not contact law enforcement. Each local police officer will confirm how often neighbors, relatives and other third parties report about “domestic violence” - but not the affected women themselves! For some reason, in the Slavic mentality there is a very strong stereotype that if a husband threatens his wife, then “it’s her own stupid fault” and there’s no point in disgracing herself by making statements against her own husband! But this is exactly what tyrants and blackmailers use - confidence in impunity!
Continue to endure this for years. To our great regret and horror, many families (if you can call it the word “family”) exist like this for years and decades - the husband drank, began to spew threats or even carry them out, sobered up, looked with repentant eyes, three days passed - history repeats itself... Not one must think that a threatening husband should be re-educated, “made to fall in love again”, especially just to endure the “hard woman’s lot”!.. It’s especially worth thinking about seriously if there are children in the family!!!

What to do when your husband threatens and you feel in danger?

But all of the above, rather, refers to the situation as a whole, which you need to think about with a cool head. And what to do exactly at that the moment when your husband threatens and you feel the danger of carrying out the threats?

Call anyone for help! If possible, call people who can come to help - better not a hysterically screaming girlfriend, but a brother, dad, friend, someone who can keep his thoughts clear and protect you if something happens. If you can’t call, scream, call your neighbors, even knock on the radiators, even run out onto the balcony, calling for help!
Try not to be alone with the threatening person.. If the conversation takes place at home, it is better to leave home for a while. Even if your husband follows you, it is no longer so dangerous: you should go to a crowded place where he is unlikely to do anything against you. Does your husband not want you to leave? At least run out into the entrance - there you are no longer in a closed “cage”: you can knock on your neighbors, in the end, the threatening person will also understand that his actions can already be heard and seen by strangers!
Try to write down the threats. You can try to quietly turn on the video camera or voice recorder on your phone. It will come in handy.
Agree with everything, if possible, fulfill the requirements threatening. Avoid hysteria and maintain an even, soothing tone of voice.

How can the law and law enforcement agencies help?

Threat of physical harm is a criminal offense. What the law implies for someone who makes threats can be read in Article 119 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation.

Even if there was no divorce between the spouses, this is not a mitigating circumstance - You can’t threaten your wife in the same way as you can threaten any other stranger..

However, a problem arises - how to prove that there was a threat, and what can law enforcement agencies do to ensure safety?

Advice from the site: if your husband threatens and you understand that this is not a one-time outburst of emotions, but often repeated words, that you should be seriously afraid - go to the police(police) and ask the local police officer to accept threat statement.

Tell as much as possible - what was said, why you are afraid of carrying out the threat, etc. Ask how the police can help in your specific situation, how to ensure your safety.

A statement is not a lawsuit. Unless there is direct evidence of threats, it will probably end up in the archives somewhere.

But! If you want dthreaten and bring this person to justice before the law, then facts will be required - these can be the testimony of witnesses to the threats (preferably not relatives, since relatives can be considered interested parties), and best of all, video recordings.

The problem is this - very many husbands threaten their wives in private, without witnesses, rightly reasoning that the woman would not want to “wash dirty linen in public.” And it’s not always possible to make a hidden camera - how to understand where and when a situation will arise when a “domestic tyrant” voices a threat?!

Therefore, the common advice that law enforcement officials give to women who come to write an application for their spouse is: wait until your husband tries to directly carry out the threat, and quickly call the police.

If the arriving squad finds a clearly “abnormal” situation, then, firstly, the enraged husband will be given a strict reprimand at the scene, and secondly, this will already be evidence of an offense and a reason to initiate a criminal case. Also, the basis for starting a trial will be bodily injuries, etc.

But!!! Who would agree like that? risk yourself– secretly trying to call the police, waiting 10-20 minutes (and there are situations when these minutes are just a very long time!!!), much less allowing bodily harm?!

Therefore, unfortunately, in our reality the words that “saving drowning people are the work of the drowning people themselves” are still true... You yourself decide whether to continue to build a relationship with this person or the one who threatened you.

Anyway, no need to feel guilty - the law is on your side!

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Tamara Igorevna will answer the question posed: what should you do if your violent husband threatens you with physical violence. The situation is extremely dangerous.

Hello, dear readers of the site.

Of course, all cases are different, but I will tell you about mine.

The moment came when my husband, under the pressure of layoffs from work and excessive alcohol intoxication, began to threaten with physical violence.

It seemed to him that I was cheating on him every day with different partners.

What I tried to do, what doors to knock on.

Please do not leave the page, but I turned to the village old lady. So, they say, and so, I say, I have absolutely no strength to continue living like this. At least get into the loop.

In general, she advised me to add a drop of herbal medicine to any drink he drinks.

The husband became a little calmer, but this, of course, was not enough.

When my husband almost took a swing at me, I realized that it would be impossible to stop him.

As they say, until the first bruise, I secretly go to the nearest police station. I am writing a statement that my husband is threatening me with physical harm.

But there are a lot of unsolved cases even without me, so I move on.

I go to a psychologist I know (a 53-year-old woman like me) and tell her everything.

And what would you think. She, who worked as a family consultant her entire adult life, did not tell me anything worthwhile.

For you, my dears, have only one way out. This is to seek protection from your own children. But we lived together. So there was no one to stand up for me.

If the husband did not drink, his aggression could be suppressed with the help of anonymous treatment. Because physical violence, in this case, is nothing more than problems with the head, a disorder of the nervous system and paralysis of morality.

You won’t be able to do anything, because your neighbors and friends won’t give a damn about you. As soon as they found out that I was in danger, they themselves were afraid for themselves and the children. They stopped contacting me.

When my husband, after a series of threats, used physical force against me, a hidden camera was already installed in the apartment.

Returning to the police station, I attached the so-called evidence base to the statement of beating.

The husband was detained and convicted. I had no other choice.

He was jailed for five years. But I didn’t feel sorry for this drunken bastard.

What will I do then, when he is released? In my case, this is not possible. He died almost before his liberation.

Girls and women, I told you my story without hiding anything.

I beg you, take care of yourself.

Tamara Igorevna.

The material was prepared by me, Edwin Vostryakovsky.