When the candy-bouquet period is only a memory, and there is a stamp in the passport, many men calm down and begin to treat the woman calmly and without aspiration.

At the same time, the wife’s behavior will be diametrically opposite: she tries to please her husband, surround him with care, comfort and attention.

But it happens that the more a woman tries to be an “ideal wife” from her point of view, the more it tires a man and instead of rushing to a clean house for a hearty dinner, he lingers longer at work or with friends.

What does a woman want?

Psychologists who deal with problems in family relationships often hear such complaints and grievances from women who do not understand anything.

The question “what am I doing wrong?” sounds rhetorical at first, but after the behavior of both spouses is analyzed, certain principles of behavior begin to emerge which a woman should adhere to in marriage.

Often ladies voice a phrase that, perhaps, becomes the fundamental goal of all their efforts: “I want my husband to be afraid of losing me.”

So, what does it take? How to behave with your husband so that he is afraid of losing you, how to make him love and respect his wife, and cannot live without you - advice from psychologists will help.

“No” to overprotection and control

A man needs personal space. Time that he can devote to communicating with friends, hobbies, or simply wanting to be alone with his thoughts. One. Without a wife.

And at such moments a woman feels abandoned, offended, unwanted and unloved.

What to do? Option two:

• by hook or by crook, leave your husband at home or go to a meeting with him, risking irritation on his part (yes, he will stay at home so as not to offend you, but mentally he will be where he was going);
• let go of your loved one with a light heart, and go about your own business.

There are many options: meeting with a friend, watching a movie, handicrafts, shopping, cafes, theater, beauty salon.

Isn't there any joy when your husband is not around? But this is already a problem, but not his, but your personal one, since no man is capable of being alone with his wife all the time - and this is normal.

And the fact that you dissolved in him is not very good. Try to step back, because the world has not come down on your husband. with his needs - there are many interesting areas of life in which you can realize yourself.

Think, shake yourself up - the solution will appear on the surface.

The other extreme would be endless calls and SMS messages, for example: “What are you doing?”, “When will you be?”, “Are you coming soon?”, “Have you eaten?”, “Why aren’t you answering?/You’re not picking up the phone,” etc. .

And this irritates men. Especially if it is repeated every five minutes.

At first he will answer normally, a little later - with nervousness, in the end, he may simply turn off the phone, plunging his wife into wild horror called “Something happened to him!”

Slow down. After all, he already has a mother, and he had enough control as a child. Of course, you shouldn’t completely neglect calls, but you need to do this in moderation to make your husband want to call you himself.

Watch the video - what to do to make a man appreciate you:

Remember: a lady's strength is in her weakness.

Our women, as they say, can run into a burning hut, charge a horse, and do much more. They can, but they shouldn't if there is a man nearby.

Forget about heavy bags, nailing yourself, rearranging furniture, fixing a faucet or computer. No one doubts that you can do it.

But, looking at how his wife changes a tire, a man, willy-nilly, has the thought: “Why me then?”

That's why let your husband feel like a strong, brave knight, and you, all so tender and weak, feel like you’re behind a stone wall with him.

Tell him how wonderful, responsive and attentive he is. We invite you to watch a video about how to improve family relationships and not lose your husband:

Hide your saw

Even if you are not happy with a lot of things or want something, you should not talk about it all the time, all the more, an orderly tone or tedious repetition of the same thing is unacceptable.

The man has already heard you, the process of thinking about possible ways to fulfill the request began in his head.

By stooping to banal “sawing,” you can not only provoke a scandal, but also discourage the desire to do what you ask.

And you also need to ask correctly:

• speak in a calm tone (it’s better when the man is in a good mood);
• do not use categorical words or command sentences;
• thank you even for fulfilling a small request.

Fight properly

In life, especially family life, it is impossible to do without quarrels. But it is important in the heat of the moment not to say too much, not to offend, not to humiliate a person.

To prevent this from happening, Follow the basic rules of a quarrel:

• don't insult;
• sort things out immediately without accumulating resentment;
• do not quarrel or make harsh remarks in public;
• try to resolve the conflict before you go to bed, and in the same bed.

From this video you will learn about five mistakes that women make when quarreling with their loved ones:

Stay beautiful!

Men love with their eyes- it is a fact. But only a small number of women remember this after marriage.

The ironclad argument “he loves me even like that” may not be devoid of common sense, but still, one should not forget about the basic things that are necessary for any woman, regardless of time and place:

• clean, well-groomed hair;
• makeup appropriate to the situation (even at home);
• neat clothes;
• manicure and pedicure;
• smooth legs (and other places).

This is the minimum that you can do even at home.

Love yourself, take care of yourself, take time for yourself - your beloved, in order to be interesting not only to your legal spouse, but also to other men.

After strangers look after you, and your husband’s friends envy how easily you let him go to the sports bar, he himself will suddenly send a gentle message about how lucky he is to have you. And this is not so little, is it?

And in conclusion, we suggest watching a video on how to make a husband jealous and afraid of losing his wife:

How should a husband and wife behave? And with your ex, and with a pregnant woman, and with a young and elderly spouse, you must first of all behave like a gentleman.

However, this is not always enough. What else should you do, how to behave with your wife, in order to preserve your mutual love for many decades? The question is not easy, but there are answers to it.

Be both gentle and firm

What does it mean? Very simple - you must take care of your spouse, be gentle and affectionate with her, but at the same time show strength of character when you need to defend your opinion. Have you decided anything? Do you think this is the right decision? Convince your spouse of this - firmly, but not rudely. Use carrots more often. Do you want your wife to cook your favorite dish from your mother's arsenal? Praise her culinary skills, tell her that it will not be difficult for her to prepare a dish for you. And in general, try to praise your wife more often, because in any person you can find a lot of advantages, albeit seemingly insignificant ones.

Distribute responsibilities fairly

A woman, coming home from work, takes care of the housework, and her husband rests, saying that he is even more tired - this, unfortunately, is a common picture. But isn’t it better to help your wife and then relax together? This will only benefit your family relationships. We did the general cleaning together, and you can have fun together for the rest of the day - go to the park, ride a Ferris wheel to look at the romantic picture of the evening city from a bird's eye view, go to the cinema, do something else. It’s not so much possible to behave this way with your wife, but necessary.

Don't criticize

Even criticism can be turned into useful, good advice. There is no need to criticize your spouse; it is better to give her good advice. By criticizing you only destroy your relationship and lower your wife’s self-esteem. A husband must also be a good adviser.

Don't forget about the holidays

Get into your head or write down in your favorite notebook all the memorable dates, especially your wedding anniversary and her parents' birthdays. The more often you are reminded of the upcoming memorable day, the better - the girl should feel that her husband, that is, you, is attentive to her. You remember the dates that are important to her and make her happy on these days to the maximum, and not only on these days.

Be reliable

When a man positions himself as a true leader and support for the woman he loves, she feels comfortable with him. If any problems arise, try to solve them on your own, always keep your word, no matter who you give it to. It’s a good idea to grow muscles so that if something happens, you can protect your spouse.

Be everything to her

If you are a gentle husband and at the same time a passionate lover to your wife, she will value you and your family relationship even more. An active and varied sex life is one of the mandatory requirements for a man to be called an ideal husband. This is how you should behave with your wife.

Many people have this question - “How to behave with your husband?” may cause confusion. It's still so simple!

However, this “simply” of yours makes your relationship far from the most impeccable. Or I'm wrong?

Surely your husband no longer carries you in his arms.

He doesn’t give gifts just like that, for you, from the heart. And he gives only because it is necessary. For some holiday.

I’m generally silent about flowers.

He says few kind words.

Spends a lot of time watching TV, computer or with friends.

Or maybe he began to stay at work longer than usual?

Most likely, he himself stopped striving for perfection and stopped developing.

And in general, he doesn’t talk to you much and is silent about his problems.

He doesn't listen to you.

Doesn’t surprise, doesn’t seduce, doesn’t appreciate you the way you want!

Sex with my husband is not so passionate and animalistic.

Or maybe he doesn’t want you much at all?

Surely you are familiar with this! I receive a lot of letters like this with similar complaints about husbands. Yes, what letters? I already see everything myself, fortunately, there are a lot of examples of this.

So here it is. If you behave in a standard way, the same way almost all married girls behave, then, accordingly, you get exactly the same problems.

The principle of the hunter and territory

Yes! People are different, but they all behave the same. Everyone has identical problems, and they need to be solved somehow.

And guess what?

The man is responsible for the spoils. He must provide and protect you. He must be strong, powerful, aggressive, cunning, smart and a good provider. Otherwise, this is not a man, but God knows what!

And you must be responsible for the relationship. If you don’t do this, if you want to throw this burden onto a man’s shoulders, then the man will begin to resist one way or another. A man cannot participate in building relationships. This is as unnatural as working for a woman in a hard job.

Therefore, it is you who must steer this process.

If you still think that a man should be involved in relationships, then marry a fagot or a very feminine man. Then you will build relationships together. Only, it’s unlikely that you will love such a weakling.

Now let's look at the reasons for a man's behavior in marriage.

At first everything is great, he tries, surprises, says big words, takes care of himself, develops, stands by your side like a mountain, spends a lot of time with you, communicates, carries you in his arms... And then there is a decline.

The decline comes when he sees that the goal has been achieved. You are already his territory. He won you.

Since a man is essentially a hunter, he has the instinct of a warrior for territory; he simply needs to start conquering something else. At least something. Very necessary!

It is very good if he switches to gaining social status, begins to conquer business, builds a career, and breaks European records in sports. Or simply actively working on himself.

But more often it happens that a man switches to easier prey. These are other women. Fortunately, there are plenty of these territories around, and they just beckon - conquer me! And satisfying the hunter's instinct lasts for a long time. You can “conquer and conquer.” This is getting interesting.

And its own territory begins to be overgrown with grass. He no longer carries you in his arms. Doesn't give YOU gifts... And so on. He's just not interested!

As a result, we get this picture. Or he gives up caring for you and switches to self-development. Or other women.

I would also like to add that this is almost inevitable. It is inevitable that after conquering you, almost 100%, he will switch to other wars. Just a real man needs to fight to feel like a real man.

Of course, you can do something very stupid and start rebelling against this. And in the end, you will get that his territory will begin to really strain you, and it will be easier to start staying at work longer than usual or spending time with someone else. Well, or, if you rush to the edge, you will start to drink alcohol and degenerate in front of the TV.

But you’re not like that, are you? You want a successful relationship, right?

Then don't do what the majority does.

I will tell you how to behave with your husband and build a happy relationship far and long. I will make you very ideal for my man.)))

Remember! ALL! DEPENDS! ONLY! FROM YOU!

You must understand that you will have to get involved in a fight. But this is the struggle that all women whose relationships have faded dream about. And you will receive pleasant emotions constantly!

How to behave with your husband.

So. You are his territory. And he must fight for her! I want to emphasize - he must fight FOR YOU!

When a man fails to win a girl quickly, he gets involved in a fight. Tries different methods, tricks and tricks. Trying. He gets angry, comes up with something, is happy when he wins, gets upset when he loses. This game must not end!

The struggle can continue forever, and then give a chance, then take it away.

The trick is that by fighting with his territory, a man becomes attached to it. She becomes his goal, his meaning of life.

Let's look at specific actions. How should you proceed? How to behave with your husband?

1. You must be often unavailable.

He shouldn't tell himself - All! She's mine now! He should always have the feeling that you are far from him, that you are slightly cold with your husband.

For example, when you are sitting with your husband in an embrace and watching a movie, then get up and sit separately from him. Say it's more convenient for you. If he comes up to you, then ask him not to interfere with watching the movie. The film is more important than him at this point!

Make it so that he wakes up and you are not there. You sleep in another room. If he asks why you went to another room, then say that you just wanted to.

Rarely pick up the phone when he or you are at work. You're busy, period.

Why should you fulfill your marital duty? The best thing you can do is turn him on, excite him, and don't let him. Let him come up with a reason himself.

I want to say that you need to do this periodically so that he has doubts about your feelings for him.

2. He should always doubt your feelings.

Therefore, stop talking about them. Don't tell him you love him, don't tell him you want him.

If he offended you, then squeeze out a smile. He shouldn't know that he can play on your feelings. He will somehow provoke you into emotions, you need not to react to it. Let feelings boil in your soul - don’t show them!

Then he will make an effort and begin to try to unbalance you. Give more expensive gifts, perform stronger actions.

After sex with my husband don't say you had a good time. Make it smarter. Praise. Say - TODAY you are great, and hide in the bathroom. Next time don't say anything. If he asks if you had a good time, then say it was better last time.

3. You must play closer and further.

You did this at the very beginning of the relationship. So start doing it again. If he behaves well, then let him closer. If it messes up, push it away immediately.

Ideally, a man should have a clear understanding that he won’t have a bad time with you. And to get closer, you need to try.

Many wives only play closer. You need to add more.

4. You must provoke him to emotions.

An emotionless life is boring. If we compare the emotional coefficient and the intellectual one, then the first is ten times stronger than the second. This means that a person is guided in life mainly by emotions.

If there is not enough emotion in family life, then the man will begin to look for it somewhere else. Can you guess where?

I want to focus on anger. A whole article could be written about this, but I will still write briefly about it in this article so that it is much more significant.

I want to show you a very subtle point. When a man gets angry, he is filled with power that women don’t know what to do with. And the man splashes it onto a foreign object. Breaks something or punches a wall.

You need to make sure that his anger develops into passion. Into animal and passionate sex!

As soon as you feel that your husband is beginning to grow cold towards you, or he is already acting quite coldly, then arouse anger in him and direct this energy into a sexual direction.

This can be done in different ways. You can get angry yourself and provoke a quarrel. You can simply provoke anger. In principle, it is not difficult to cause anger, but it is much more difficult to manage it.

As soon as you see that your husband is “seething” and is ready to throw out his energy, immediately provoke him to have sex. He will start up on his own and have a blast. You can provoke him with the words “Come on, fuck me harder”, “Is this all you can do?”, “Fuck me like a whore”, etc.

This will blow your mind both of you! And he will become addicted to you like a drug, because you give him emotions!

5. Be hard to touch sometimes.

Often wives can walk around the house naked, change clothes in front of their husbands and calmly allow themselves to be touched.

This immediately indicates that the territory is under control. You need to be hard to get. Ideally, he should not see you naked outside of bed at all.

If he gets into your panties, then remove your hand and be embarrassed.

If he starts kissing your neck, push him away slightly and change the subject.

He shouldn't touch you wherever he wants and whenever he wants. Imagine that you don’t know each other well, and behave with your husband as if you were a stranger. This state will be transmitted to him, and it will start to turn him on. He will get involved in the fight. He's in the game!

6. Provoke thoughts.

For example, be sad out of nowhere. Don't tell him the reason. He must come up with the reasons for your upset himself.

7. Be a mystery to him.

Don't open up like a book. He shouldn't know the plot, he shouldn't know how it will end.

8. Another man should be in your life.

Basically, you should be in danger. There must be an idea in his head - the territory is in danger! Talk about how they compliment you, how they look at you, how they try to get to know you. Let an ex-boyfriend appear on the horizon, let a friend appear.

This will show that someone wants to encroach on his territory. It's a fight again! Just what you need!

9. You need to be protected.

If you do not need protection, if you are independent, then this is bad for your relationship.

Remember - you have to freeze, you might get sick, you are afraid to go outside - there are dogs and other people, you are afraid to stay at home alone! Tell your husband about this. He must, simply must, protect you!

A man really needs to protect someone. This is a confirmation of his strength, it works at the level of instincts!

Talk about it. Complain! This is fine!

10. Look your best.

Take care of yourself. Love yourself, become more beautiful, charming and charming! Don't turn into a house duck in a greasy robe!

And your husband will move mountains for you!

Remember one thing. You are his territory, and your husband must always fight for it. As soon as the fight is won, he will immediately switch to another fight, and your relationship will begin to fade.

In the near future, I plan to write an article on how to provoke your man to achieve success in life..

How to behave with a man - 5 rules of an experienced psychologist and a happy woman. Let's remember and put it into practice! It would seem that men are the same people as us, only with a slightly different anatomical structure. To find a common language with them, special instructions are not needed. But this is in theory. In practice, everything turns out to be much more complicated and confusing.

A true woman knows perfectly well how to behave with a man in order to fall in love with him and maintain this feeling towards herself for many years. But how many of them are there, those true women who are born with the ability to deal with the stronger sex? I don't think it's too much. The rest have to learn gradually to master their hearts, minds and bodies.

How to behave correctly with men: 5 rules

Living by the rules is hard, I understand that very well. Sometimes you want to give up on everything and introduce a touch of chaos, madness and disorder into your planned life. One note, perhaps, can still be added, but no more, otherwise it will take quite a long time to clean up the resulting mess. This lyrical digression is directly related to how to behave with a man.

In relationships with the stronger sex, you also need to follow certain rules, without deviating from them too often. One wise woman taught me these rules. At her old job, her bosses often invited her to conduct training.

Irina Ivanovna was not only an experienced psychologist, but also a luxurious woman who, at 45 years old, could give a head start to any twenty-year-old, had a husband who adored her, and two adult student children. One day, taking advantage of the fact that the bosses were away on their own business, and appreciating our predominantly female team, Irina Ivanovna decided to devote half an hour to the topic “How to behave correctly with men” and shared her own experience of a happy marriage.

5 rules on how to behave correctly with a man:

1. Maintain your attractiveness.
2. Be caring.
3. Don’t put pressure on him, trying to occupy all the man’s personal space.
4. Less squabbles, scandals, whining about little things.
5. Don’t “castrate” your loved one.

Remain a beauty and you won’t have to think too much about how to behave with a man

Every woman has her own secrets of personal charm and attractiveness, but no one will argue that there are some general standards of beauty. You can, of course, say as much as you want: “But I weigh 100 kilograms, I don’t wear makeup, I don’t go to beauty salons and in general I’m still a bitch, but my husband loves me,” but how sincere are you in these statements?

A perfectly pumped butt, flawless makeup and expensive sexy clothes are not the complete formula for female attractiveness, although, in my opinion, every woman should learn to use decorative cosmetics, dress well and play sports.

It is very important not only to learn how to behave correctly with a man, but also:

– get manicures and pedicures regularly;
– fight excess hair on the body;
– tidy up your hair;
– take care of the beauty of your skin;
– use perfume;
– wear beautiful underwear;
– monitor your health, etc.

Do you want to learn how to behave correctly with a man? Be caring!

Every person is a little selfish, putting his own interests above others. This is, in principle, correct, but the main thing is not to go too far in your selfish desires. Especially if you are trying to figure out how to behave with a man. The stronger sex loves to be taken care of. I don’t mean that your boyfriend needs to wear slippers between his teeth and anticipate any desire, but he should feel your care.

Besides, being caring and behaving correctly with a man is not so difficult:

1. Treat his tastes and desires with understanding (within reasonable limits, of course), be it requests to experiment in bed or make cheesecakes for breakfast.
2. Listen to what he tells you, what he’s talking about, keep the conversation going, even if this fishing/hunting/cars/tanks are already getting to you.
3. Take care of him during illness (most men are lousy and suspicious patients).
4. Have a nest: the house should be cozy and comfortable to live in.
5. Be there for him in conflicts, and when he is completely wrong, gently (and most importantly, in private!) point it out.
6. Give him gifts (don’t give him only useful things every time, sometimes buy what he wants).
7. Praise him – men love flattery.

Respecting personal space means behaving correctly with a man

Many women, when they connect their lives with a man, completely forget that they were fully established individuals before him (they had interests, hobbies, their own social circle, plans, dreams) and completely dissolve in the relationship. Okay, that's your business, but why do you demand the same from him? If you treat your loved one as if he is your personal property, then soon he will get tired of this noose and he will run away.

But you need to behave with a man completely differently:

1. Leave him time, energy and money for hobbies.
2. Don’t yell at him because he sometimes meets with friends in an all-male company.
3. Do not rummage through personal mail, do not monitor social networks, do not read SMS.
4. Don't follow him.
5. Don’t call 100 times a day asking “Where are you?”
6. Don’t force people to report on every step.
7. Don't criticize his friends, etc.

The love of scandals and whining prevents women from behaving correctly with men

Dear women, remember, all men (every one of them) cannot stand women who drink. I understand that family life cannot be honey-sugar in the style of “Yes, dear”, “As you want, darling”, but itching every day like the “Friendship” chainsaw, whining, complaining and rowing over little things is absolutely wrong. Why some ladies turn both their lives and the lives of their husbands into hell with whining, scandals, and grumbling, I sincerely don’t understand.

If you have any complaints, they must be justified and expressed calmly, without hysterics. It is also very important to offer some kind of solution to the problem. There is no need to behave with a man like the evil mother-in-law from the jokes “I don’t know how, but it’s completely wrong,” pouting over various bullshit and acting on the principle “guess for yourself what I need.” No normal man can withstand such stupid pressure. And why do you need such a life? For the love of masochism?

It is not so important how to behave with a man, the main thing is not to “castrate” him!

Naturally, I use the word “castration” in a figurative sense and mean a situation when a woman, with her words, actions, and behavior, destroys everything masculine in a man, turning him into some kind of weak-willed old woman who does not even have the right to vote in her home.

If you want to behave correctly with a man, then please:

1. Don't criticize him over little things.
2. Don't humiliate him, especially in public.
3. Don't trample on his manhood.
4. Do not make him a henpecked man who, without your royal permission, does not dare to breathe again.
5. Don’t try to do everything yourself: fix faucets, raise children, and quarrel with the builders doing your repairs.
6. Do not use the phrases “Because I said so”, “It will be the way I want”, “You are stupid, so I will do everything myself”, “Don’t interfere, you will ruin everything” and others.
7. Remember more often that you are still a woman, which means you are the weaker sex, while a man is the strong one. Don't change roles!

You are, of course, under no obligation to follow these tips. Choose a different tactic on how to behave with a man, but if it does not produce good results, then perhaps it’s time to think: “What am I doing wrong” and listen to smart people with an established personal life.

With his desires, friends, etc., he does not allow a man to relax and disrespect a woman. You just need to keep the line between personal freedom and the responsibilities that involve the relationship of two people.

I will describe two extreme behaviors of women to make it more clear with examples. My old friend Galina got married at 29 years old. The marriage was for love and mutual interest. Galina is an educated woman with an analytical mind. She had her own established circle of friends, quite successful people. The future husband was flattered that Galya had such acquaintances. Before the wedding, they talked with Gali’s friends. They received Volodya very well, as they respected Galya.

After the wedding, to which, by the way, mostly Vova’s friends were invited, they began to move away from Galina’s friends. Volodya began to “drag” his wife into his company. They spent all their free time at sea, in the mountains, and in the company of their husband. They treated Galina very coolly; moreover, they allowed unpleasant statements about her, which did not raise her in the eyes of her husband. Gradually, Vova also stopped appreciating his wife. This was Galina's first mistake. Her friends, reliable and tactful people, when communicating with her husband, on the contrary, praised her and made compliments. Of course, the husband’s friends do not always treat his wife unkindly, but in principle this is not an uncommon situation.

At work, Galina was valued and respected, but at home she turned into a gray and uninteresting “mouse”. No matter how tired she was, she always performed her household duties. The house was clean, and Vova always had a delicious dinner waiting for him at a beautifully set table. Every man's dream. Galya lost her friends because she refused all calls with an offer to meet, since she considered it impossible to leave the house even sometimes in the evenings. Once you get married, especially for love, at a fairly mature age, you are obliged to devote yourself completely to your family. The more she tried, the less her husband appreciated her and the more he “got on her head.” Every day he expressed more and more complaints to Galina. He began to stay late in the evenings, and then he might not come to spend the night at all. They had a child, but that didn’t stop him either.

The relationship kept getting worse. After the scandals, she went to her apartment, but after the first call from her husband, she rushed back. Her life turned into a series of quarrels. She tried to talk to her husband, to have “touching and soul-saving conversations,” which naturally led nowhere. She cried, screamed, cursed. But Vova stopped being afraid of losing her. Volodya understood that no matter what he did, Galya was still trying to save the family by any means necessary. And after the quarrels, she tried with redoubled energy to improve the relationship. My husband got impudent. And at some point Galya couldn’t stand it and went to live with herself. She did everything for her family. But all her efforts did not bring positive results. This is a real situation. True, they later managed to change it, which I will write about in future articles.

And the second story clearly shows another “kink” in the relationship. A married couple, the wife is a modern woman with modern views on life, knows absolutely that she cannot “dissolve” in a man. Both spouses had prestigious and well-paid jobs. Zhanna did not want children at this stage. She successfully climbed the “official” ladder and confidently made her career. And outwardly, Zhanna was a very attractive woman, whom men looked at. Zhanna, just like Galina, married for love, but apparently having read psychological literature about how to behave in order to always remain a loved and desired woman, she simply “went too far.” "

Zhanna did only what she wanted. She constantly told her husband about personal freedom, that she had the right to a private life. And at the slightest dissatisfaction from her husband, she went to live with her sister. She stayed with her sister as much as she considered necessary. She did absolutely nothing at home. Artem loved his wife very much. Fulfilled all her whims. I cleaned the apartment myself and cooked. Artyom’s relatives saw Zhanna as a completely different person, they tried to explain to Artyom that this is not how they build a family, that he himself had become nervous and twitchy, but he didn’t want to see anything. Friends also remained somewhere in another life. Zhanna did not want to communicate with them, and they, in turn, did not want to communicate with an ambitious woman. Artyom alone did not go anywhere; without Zhanna everything seemed uninteresting and meaningless to him. Artyom lived only with Zhanna. He covered her bed with roses, set off fireworks, and never tired of presenting her with expensive gifts and surprises. When she went to her sister, Artyom’s life lost its meaning. The biggest gift for Artem was his wife’s call asking him to pick her up from his sister. For a while she became an affectionate cat, spoke kind words, and Artem was euphoric.

And at work, things got worse and worse for him. Zhanna used the “swinging” method on him. Good bad. And Artem became more and more irritable. They lived in this relationship for about a year. Time passed. Artem began to get used to Zhanna, began to understand that no matter where she went, she still returned to him. The fear of losing her dulled, and then completely disappeared. Then the realization came that he had isolated himself from society and isolated himself on Zhanna. Weekdays dragged on. A dirty apartment, which he stopped taking care of, and lack of food. He began to slowly restore relationships with friends. Take care of things you started at work. And one day, when Zhanna once again went to her sister, he did not take her.

Their age was approaching 30 years. Zhanna was also successful and beautiful. And she didn’t particularly worry about the breakup. Quite a lot of men revolved around Zhanna, and she believed that she would successfully find a worthy life partner. Artem, although he himself was the initiator of the breakup, was still worried for some time. Over time, he calmed down, met a good girl and now they are expecting a child. Zhanna was looking for a wealthy, intelligent and reliable man, a completely normal desire, but she did not take into account one thing, that a man who was successful would not rush to the first attractive woman. And he will also look for a companion who knows how to not only demand, but also will not forget her duties as a wife.

It’s hard to believe that a wealthy and successful man would come tired from work to a dirty apartment, and then wait for his wife to get some exercise and be delighted with it. Zhanna is already over 30 years old and is still searching. Both women, Galina and Zhanna, “went too far.” Galya “dissolved” in the family, and Zhanna “dissolved” in herself. Both lead to the destruction of relationships. Of course, men are “hunters” and women are allowed to be capricious and keep them on their toes, and they should not give up their desires and friends. You definitely need to have your own “personal space”. You cannot turn into an “appendage” of your husband, otherwise you will become a “read book”, grumbling and uninteresting, and you will spend all your evenings at the window, waiting for your husband. It is important to find a “golden mean” in a relationship with a man.